Would appreciate some opinions

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[robowarrior]

I think the question would be, ' how can i be the one who can make her happy instead of someone else?' The answer is you can't, she decides with whomever she wants to be, because just like you she has free will. That being said, its better to confess your feelings to her now , even if you lose her as a friend its better because you would go nuts if only stays with friendship, that way you could say at least i tried and be able to move on with your life, then that you let the situation linger for years only to ask that same question then and be rejected, id say save yourself some time and heartacke by just confessing your feelings to her.

[Cadence308]

It bothers you when your friend talks about guys and the sexual things she does with guys because you want her, you want to be that guy that she is doing the nasty with, etc. You are plain and simply "jealous!"

[IntoTheFire]

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[pianoguy]

It sounds to me like you love her.

 

Basically, the jealously will go away when the love does. I find that there's only a few ways to do that:

 

1) Separate yourself from her

2) Attempt to start a relationship with her

3) Date someone else more interesting

 

Someone else feel free to add to this list, I'd love to hear.

[IntoTheFire]

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[pianoguy]

There, there, it's okay. It happens to the best of us.

 

Now, what do you propose to do about it?

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[pianoguy]

Is there anyone that you can talk about this with- any friends outside of this group, or family members?

 

Do you have any frriends in the lesbian community?