so upset, please help, and share stories

[sammyhagar]

I saw the girl I brkoe up with over the summer, and i am pretty sure she has a boyfriend now, I saw her a few weeks ago, and she told a friend of mine (after bringing my name up) that it was weird seeing me, but i don't know if it means like stirred up feelings weird or just weird werid. I need this girl back , my other post has the full story, and honestly I'm fine now, i just have never missed someone this badly in my life. Any insight on how to win her back would be greatly appreciated, and will mean more than the world to me. Also, success stories in similar situations would help greatly.

 

Is there any chance of a success story?

 

Thanks

[Jeffrey2095]

Hi Sammyhagar,

 

I read your previous posts...

 

It doesn't seem like there is much hope unfortunately.

 

Especially since she has a bf now.

 

Personall opinion... this is the one that got away.

 

Good luck and best wishes

 

Jeff

[drum4god]

I saw the girl I brkoe up with over the summer, and i am pretty sure she has a boyfriend now, I saw her a few weeks ago, and she told a friend of mine (after bringing my name up) that it was weird seeing me, but i don't know if it means like stirred up feelings weird or just weird werid. I need this girl back , my other post has the full story, and honestly I'm fine now, i just have never missed someone this badly in my life. Any insight on how to win her back would be greatly appreciated, and will mean more than the world to me. Also, success stories in similar situations would help greatly.

 

Is there any chance of a success story?

 

Thanks

 

Dude,

 

I feel your pain, but you don't need this girl back. You need yourself back. I know that sounds corny, but its so true. When we lose the ones we love, we become obsessed with them, and lose ourselves.

 

There is a chance you can get her back, but ironically you need to get to the point you don't need her. You need to go strict No contact, and work on yourself. Become a better you. Not for her, but for you. You are not guaranteed you will have her the rest of your life, but you will always have you.

 

It won't be easy. In fact it will be excruciating, but you will be stronger for it. And who knows, maybe she will come back, but don't bank on it.

[sammyhagar]

I just think there's no shot, cause I'll never see her unless it's like planned to hang out....any success stories?

[LostLoveinLosAngeles]

Success, yes I have had ton's of success but that is because she wanted and made the effort to be with me. Everything I attemped to do failed. So you my friend have to grow some hair on your chest and let go. If she wanted to be with you she'd call you.

[sammyhagar]

you guys think this can happen even without seeing her?

[LostLoveinLosAngeles]

Sound funny but that is exactly how it happens. You live your life and everything is going good and then boom she calls you. Basically man if you like her tell her all you can get is a yes/no... by the way maybe equals no!