Im Sooo Confused!

[blindeyes05]

Ok......2 make a long story short. I fell in love with my high school b/f of almost a year..then due to some complicated situation of not being able 2 c each other he broke things off.....he made contact wit me a few months after and wanted 2 meet with me & because i was hurtover the breakup i never followed through with the plans of us meeting up....so its been a year since we last saw each other and nearly 8 months since our last contact. Just a few days ago i got 2 thinking about him & decided to call him up 2 c how he was. 2 my surprise he wanted to meet up 4 coffee, so i agreed. so after 1 year of not seeing each other we finally got 2 seeing each other. When i got 2 seeing him he looked so different. i found myself sad that he changed When i got 2 talking with him he told me that he regreted the breakup & he wanted 2 get backtogether. After c ing him idont know if i find him attractive ne more but part of me wants to findthat spark again cuz i still care 4 him. Im so confused??

[sohigh]

Maybe you can start building a friendship with him first and see how you feel? I don't think you should make any decision right now. But at the same time, you should make it clear to him that you need more time to see how it goes. I think enough time has passed since your break up and so you should just treat this as if you first met him and see how you feel about it!

[robowarrior]

Its worth giving a try to grow back together again, catch up with him on what he's been doing, don't linger in it however, try to make something beautifull between you two, and bring love and light into eachothers lives. You can always break up again if things go wrong.