Is there hope

[darkpumpkin]

After months of fighting. How do you get a relationship back to good. I know I have stopped fighting about petty things but then my boyfriend will start picking fights. Then in return I find that I am starting fights. We are going to councelling. It's only been once and we have another appt. next week. Actually I guess I want to ask. If both parties want to be together, are willing to work it out is there hope to get back the spark that made you fall in love with the other?

[Jetta]

If both parties are willing to work at a relationship, yes of course there is hope. As far as the spark, you have to work through the muck to get back to it, yes it is possible. Good luck to you both.

[tnttran]

go out alot. to places you both enjoy. go out on dates with you other couple friends and have a great time!

 

the more fun you have, the more you will be happy and enjoy your time with your partner, and forget about arguing. and you don't argue as much with a 3rd company = )

[Momene]

See if there's a pattern to how/when/where the fights start and see what can be done.