darkpumpkin Posted February 11, 2007 Share Posted February 11, 2007 I've had enough! I can't take this anymore. I love my boyfriend. He is very sweet. He will be considerate to me at times. But he always blames me. If we get into any fight he blames me. We went to councelling on thursday. Everything was great until I saw him saturday night. He had come in from red deer and picked me up. He had eaten around 3 and was like "so you ate already" when he picked me up at 5:30. I replied "no, but I know you ate so we can eat after you play hockey tonight". He plays hockey from 10-11. So all is good. He's tired and sore and all he's talking about is going home and sleeping. I made the silly comment that I should have just stayed home becasue he was grumpy and I didn't want to just stay in and sleep. Anyway we make our way to safeway. We get to the checkout and he starts putting his stuff down. He then starts to put my stuff with his. I say pleasently "no no I'll pay for mine". Well he starts handing me the stuff. I had a bad moment got frustrated and took ovet the situation....he could tell I was frustrated. In the car he was acting like a wounded puppy so I said I was sorry for getting so frustrated. He continues to act like a little sad puppy. I finally ask why he he's acting like that and he blows up and tells me that he was being all kind and loving and I snapped at him. And that my apology wasn't very sincere. So I walk out of the room. Fine that's done. We go to hockey after making up and he mentions his ex I freak out a bit and say it's not appropriate and he goes into this whole vent on how he has to walk on egg shells around me and that he can't say anything. I sit in an ice cold hockey rink for 2 hours. I'm freezing. He's finished and I say we can go home if you want because I knew he must be tired. he says "fine". So we go home. I'm freezing, can't feel my feet, hungry and emotional torn down again. We get in I jump in the shower to get warm and cry my eyes out. I go to into the bedroom and find him sleeping. So I lay down he rolls over to cuddle me as I'm crying and shaking from still being so cold and just starts snoring in my ear. Then this morning I ask for sex (we've been having sex issues) and he tried to undo my pants and I make a little comment with giggles that it feels like I'm being rapped. Well he rolls over. He then gets up to go for a shower and says "I didn't think you wanted sex. You didnt' seem interested in it". Damn it! it's not always my fault. I feel like no matter what goes wrong with us he never takes responsibility. I just can't do this. Quote Link to comment
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