Crying Everyday.....

[Tricia23]

Please I am in desperate need of help. I've posted my story on here a few times, but I'm so hurt and sad, I need more help. I'll try to summarize my story as short as I can.

 

 

I was dating Eric for 4 years. Things were great the first few years, then we ended up seperating for a while. Then we got back together on Sweetest Day of 2006, after a few months of being apart. Things were fine, but we did fight alot. So a few months later in December. Eric told me he needed a break for himself. At first he didn't want to have anything to do with me, because he was certain he didn't want to work on things period.

 

Now as time passed, Its been about a month and a half or so since we separated. He goes out with his friends on the weekend, drinks, goes clubbin, etc... And I then asked him. What's going to happen with us, and He told me this, "I want to be with you, but I need to get these things out of my system" and I asked him what he meant by getting things out of his system, and he said, Him, wanting to be on his own, wanting to be single.. etc. And I asked him did it have anything to do with another female, or wanting to see someone else, and he re-assured me everyday over and over that there was nobody he is interested in, nor does he want to see someone new.

 

But the hardest thing for me, is when I see him once a weekend, I can't help but cry and tell him how much he's hurting me etc... And he hates talking about those things, and he says that ruins the night, and it upsets him. I know its not what I should be doing, but its so hard to see his face, and feeling that feeling I get when I'm around him. It hurts so much.

 

So he just said he needs his time, and space. He said things will work out for us, because I am the girl he wants to end up with. We are spending Valentine's Day together on Wendesday, and all of Saturday evening. So we'll see how that goes.

 

 

I really need help and advice. Anything would be great. I can't stop the cryin and I can't make the pain go away. Please Help me....

[Jeffrey2095]

Hello Tricia

 

It sounds to me like you might just consider moving on...

 

No sense in being miserable.

 

Personally... I would give him his "space"...

 

Maybe someone else will appreiciate you.

 

Good luck and best wishes.

 

Jeff

[PBcrawler]

definitely, its hard to let go but you can't control that kind of situation. The best advice i can think of is the same advice that was given to me... never chase a distancer. If he really just has single things he has to do, then start making the door to come back look alittle harder to open for him. And if you're sad enough to be crying all the time, the best way to feel better is to get away from him completely.