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[the_azn_fu]

hi everyone!

okay, so my ex and i broke up a few weeks back. it was mutual and after 8 months, things began to get a bit dull. but i miss her and i want her back.

i have been researching and i have found ebook sites about how to get your ex back in 2 days, and other pages like this.

 

is that information stuff you can find here on enotalone?

 

i talked to her about it already, and she said its probably best for me to move on. is there any hope you think?

 

thanks

[Dako]

I'm afraid lots of people write silly books on reversing a breakup, but I think you should move on.

If she says it's over, it's over.

 

People cling to hope at these times, and it merely prolongs the misery.

Let go and heal.

[ManOfPlans]

Someone on these forums posted this a while back, about some book at link removed

 

 

 

Hope this helps!

[shadow34]

Well I am guilty of buying the ebooks, the latest one being, ******* which really just combines them all ......

 

If anything they are great for a confidence boost and yeah they all advocate No contact...

 

If anyone wants a look send me an email:

 

email removed

 

georgi

[ManOfPlans]

Oh yes and to actually answer the question, I reckon everything you could possibly want is on here, by clicking on the 'Rating' button and reading all the 5 star posts.

[hades]

All the info in the ebooks, i'll tell you right here.

 

1. Stop being a wuss.

2. Don't call her all the time

3. Play hard to get

4. Don't talk about getting back together

5. Play it cool.

6. Tell her your glad she dumped you

7. use NC rule.

8. Change the things that you did wrong.

 

I just saved you a ton of money. I'll accept a check. PM me and ill give you a place to send it.

 

These ebooks are generally people who scoure these forums and others, collect the information, and just throw it up into one book. I'm telling you right now, there is no way to get an EX back.

 

The only sure thing is if an EX still loves and cares about you, you did a few things that are changeable, and the EX can get passed it and wants to work through it at some point.

 

90% of the sucess story's on getting back together are simply people who loved their partner but could't take it any more. The ones where they leave them for other people, aplaces or things, always turn out bad in the end.

[Weeblie]

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Yup those eight steps pretty much sum up those books. I might also add that there's something a little psychotic about those books too. I read one that said...excercise daily, even if you already are in shape. If you used to excercise regularly, do it even more!

 

 

That totally sounds unhealthy. The weird thing about those plans too...

You're supposed to move on and get over your ex in order to get them back. But how are you supposed to move on if everyday you're following some plan to get them back?

[Dako]

But how are you supposed to move on if everyday you're following some plan to get them back?

 

I think that's covered in Volume Two for $19.95

[shadow34]

The reason the books promote so much exercise, is because it releases seratonin into the brain, which is the all important chemical needed to combat depression...a lack of seratonin is the chemical behind the reason for depression whether it be either chemical or circumstantial/ reactive or behavioural depression...

 

So the more exercise you do the more it is released and if your going through a break up this certainly does more than help as it keeps the mind healthy..

 

Nothing psychotic to it at all !

[LostLoveinLosAngeles]

HADES summed it up right there. There is nothing you can do to get them back. If they love you they will come back to you. You wont need to do anything at all. You cant buy them or say anything. It will be their immediate want to reach out to you and "want" to make things work.