angel20 Posted February 9, 2007 Posted February 9, 2007 Hiya. Ok so iv been with my boyfriend 2.5 months and i REALLY like him..i just dont know if he feels the same?? im 20 and hes just turned 19 hes abit shy and dosent express his feelings much atall, i do kinda think he likes me cause he drives down to see me 2-3 times a week,so that makes me think ''why would he bother'' he lives about 30mins drive away so i dont get to see him as much as id like to...but there is still a doubt in my mind...he also goes out every friday and i get abit paranoid, i dnt think he would cheat on me but you can never be 100% sure can you! I REALLY DONT WANT TO GET MY HEART BROKEN..AGAIN!! xXx
darkpumpkin Posted February 9, 2007 Posted February 9, 2007 You always have to take the risk but since you have been going out for 2.5 months I'm going to say you have decided to take it lol. I would just wait a bit. He is into you to take the time to see you 2-3 times a week and it just may take him a bit longer to let you know how he feels.
Mun Posted February 9, 2007 Posted February 9, 2007 Well, let's see, you've been with him 2.5 months and he's been with you 2.5 months--I think that qualifies as he likes you . Becareful about being insecure around him and such, it's a big turn off. He drives down to see you 2-3 times a week. How far is he driving? Sounds to me like he makes a good effort to be around for you. You lucky girl
angel20 Posted February 9, 2007 Author Posted February 9, 2007 I think hes worth it, just need 2 know if hes worth carrying on takeing the risk for...
Meow18 Posted February 9, 2007 Posted February 9, 2007 Like you said, you don't spend 2.5 months with someone and drive 30 minutes 2-3 times a week if he didn't really like you! Why don't you completely trust him? You really need to work on this because if you don't completely trust him now, then it will only get worse. And that's no way to be in a relationship! Has he done anything to make you think he might not be trustworthy? Have you been hurt really bad in the past?
angel20 Posted February 9, 2007 Author Posted February 9, 2007 Its about a 30min drive...he does make the effort....but he sumtimes says i throw it back in his face...
angel20 Posted February 9, 2007 Author Posted February 9, 2007 Yer iv been hurt in the past, i wanna trust him 100% but i have little doubts, i hasent given me any reason 2 thow...maybe cause he dosent live close
Mun Posted February 9, 2007 Posted February 9, 2007 How do you throw it in his face? Maybe he feels you don't appreciate the effort he makes? If he isn't giving you a reason to doubt him then don't. It's a quick way to lose a relationship.
angel20 Posted February 9, 2007 Author Posted February 9, 2007 How do you throw it in his face? Maybe he feels you don't appreciate the effort he makes? If he isn't giving you a reason to doubt him then don't. It's a quick way to lose a relationship. i guess sumtimes i say stuff like ''pfffttt you only cum rnd for sex'' but i dnt really mean it thow... I dnt tell him i doubt him, or let him know i have doubts
BrokenHeart82 Posted February 9, 2007 Posted February 9, 2007 Angel, probably not what you want to hear but if he was "just comin rnd for sex" he would probably opt to come around to someone closer. Hes making an effort to see you 2-3 times a week..his effort, his gas money, his time.....and you are going to end up coming off to him an ungrateful (huge turn off!)
applejack Posted February 9, 2007 Posted February 9, 2007 Hiya. Ok so iv been with my boyfriend 2.5 months and i REALLY like him..i just dont know if he feels the same?? im 20 and hes just turned 19 hes abit shy and dosent express his feelings much atall, i do kinda think he likes me cause he drives down to see me 2-3 times a week,so that makes me think ''why would he bother'' he lives about 30mins drive away so i dont get to see him as much as id like to...but there is still a doubt in my mind...he also goes out every friday and i get abit paranoid, i dnt think he would cheat on me but you can never be 100% sure can you! I REALLY DONT WANT TO GET MY HEART BROKEN..AGAIN!! xXx Okay yes, it sounds like he does like you. But he is young, and he is going to want to go out and hang out with his friends from time to time. If you try to stop this, it is only going to push him farther away. You two have been together for 2.5 months. This is a good start, but it is far from a lifetime commitment. My advice is for you to relax. Enjoy your youth. Give yourself and him some space, and I believe that the outcome will be much better.
Mun Posted February 9, 2007 Posted February 9, 2007 He goes out every Friday with his friends, how often does he take YOU out? I understand why you'd feel like he only comes over for sex and the best thing is not to say it but do something about it. You don't have to have sex every single time he comes over anyway---do you? I remember telling my bf at some time: " hun, it's getting late... you best be on your way." We had cuddled, kissed and hung out but I didn't want it to turn into only about sex so I cut the night short a few times. He kept coming back.
angel20 Posted February 9, 2007 Author Posted February 9, 2007 I guess ill just have 2 see how it goes, hes takeing me out 2morrow!
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