NSY991 Posted February 9, 2007 Share Posted February 9, 2007 Hi. I'm brand new and could use some advice. I have been romantically interested in someone for about six months. The feeling is mutual but we have been unable to really pursue things because he travels a lot and basically both our schedules are pretty busy. Anyway,we do talk almost everyday either via email, or phone. Sometimes he calls and leaves messages if he can't reach me and it makes my day. My issue is that I get SO emotional sometimes and it has caused us a lot of conflict. I over react if he is unable to get back to me when I want him to.. and of course I blow up at him. I am simply frustrated because I wish our relationship would progress. Last week hit a boiling point. I was drinking with my girlfriends earlier in the evening and later I tried calling him. No answer. So I blew his phone up. He then sent me a letter saying it was over. He couldn;t take it anymore. Well..I slept on it. The next day I found out my father had a massive heart attack. He passed away a few hours later. I was and am devastated. On top of that i felt like a total idiot for what I did with my b/f. So I sent him a sincere apology letter and of course told him of my father. he then sent back condolences stating he had lost his father to a heart attack as well. Since last week he has been EXTREMELY thoughtful and sweet.Sending me emails saying he's thinking of me, and it makes me feel more horrible for the way I acted. So tonight I had a setback. I have been crying all day. I asked Josh if I could call him to talk....this was his response: I understand you're sad.....and I really want to help. But I'm not ready to chat....there was a lot of negativity last week....and I'd just as soon take some time to think about the direction I'm heading. But rest assured....I think about you often and still most certainly have hopes. That's important for you to know... Me I said I understand and to take all the time he needs. Does this situation have hope? What can i do to make this better? Thank you. Quote Link to comment
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