confused_lady Posted February 8, 2007 Share Posted February 8, 2007 Hi everyone! I am new to this forum and I am desperate for some help. My boyfriend and I have been together for 10 months and we have been living together for 2 months. We are fine together. He is nice, sweet, good looking. I am terribly in love with him. However I found out something that is really driving me mad. Last sunday he kind of confessed that Transgender and transformations turns him on. He reassured me that there is nothing to do with his sexuality, it is just that he has a fantasy/ curiosity/ Fetish for transformations of gender. He showed me the following link: link removed and made me read one of the stories. Basically on this site there are pictures of good looking women and next to it a story saying that woman is actually a man who turned into a girl. Also if you click on the story link there are several Fiction stories of men who 'magicaly' turned into women and describes in details how it is to have sex in the new body. I have been trying to deal with this in the best possible way. Although it was a shock I did not say anything. He asked me if I had any questions. At the time had so many questions in my mind (and still have), but because of the shock I wasn't able to ask him. I don't know what to think of it. In addition to it, he also confessed that sometimes he tries women's clothes. He confessed putting on my bra and knickers when I was not around. He says it is just a fantasy and curiosity, nothing that I should be worried about. However this is easier said than done. After this happened, it was 4am, we went to bed and we had the most amazing sex. However I cant stop thinking about it. I am becoming a bit paranoid and I think that everytime he is at home by himself that he will try my clothes or that he is reading stuff about it on the internet. I have been put off a little bit from having sex with him. I used to love to see him naked but now everytime he is naked in front of me the terrible thoughts of his fantasy comes to my mind and I get a repulsive feeling but of course I dont show it. Can someone give me some advice on how to deal with this? I havent been able to live a normal life since this came up... I cant eat... and I cant even sleep properly. Thanks so much! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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