Kaede Posted February 8, 2007 Share Posted February 8, 2007 Ok... last summer my husband left me and our 3yr old after we've been together for 9 years. We got back together about 4/5 months ago and ever since wev'e been trying to get the trust back in our relationship. During the time were separated i was hurting so much and I tried to move on by making friends online etc. I met a guy on a site and we didn't communicated for about 3 months after me and my husband got back together. my husband and i renewed our vows in december but before we did i contacted the guy again. I don't know why i did it. part of me was feeling scared and part of me didn't believe my husband was for real in his feelings, becasue when he left me i wasn't expecting it and he said he didn't love me and my son and i wasn't what he wanted at that point in his life. My husband has found out that i contacted this guy and he's furious. I promised i wouldn't contact this guy again, but yet i've done it twice since. Calling and texting. We've never had sex or met, but some of the calling and texting was sexual. The past few weeks i've realised that my husband and son is the most important people in my life and i can now l look at him and feel warm, when before when we just got back together i didn;t feel much. To cut this short, now that i've come around and cut out the email and texting my husband has looked at my phone records and saw how many times i've called this other man and text him. We are currently seeing a counsellor and i still love him very much and want this to work. I'm afarid i've hurt him a great deal by my actions and i don;t know if he will ever trust me again. was my actions as bad as having an affair? i'm not in contact with this person anymore. Quote Link to comment
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