finewhine Posted February 8, 2007 Share Posted February 8, 2007 I feel as though healing from my breakup from my 3.5 year relationship may finally be at a close. It's been nine months since the relationship ended. There are still some lingering thoughts, of course, but nothing preoccupying me. I'm certainly not upset about the relationship anymore. My question is for those of you who consider yourselves recovered from a major breakup: how can I tell if I'm over it? Is there a litmus test I can put my feelings through? Is there something I can do to achieve final closure? I would like to achieve a clear demarcation between now and the past. I've already deleted all the e-mails, thrown everything away (or put it in storage), slept with someone else, said my final goodbyes... in short, I'm pretty sure I'm over this. It's a story in my life. It ended. But all the pain I went through seems so damn important that I want to honor it, you know? Recovering from that blow was such a life-changing experience that I want to celebrate the end and that it happened and it ended. Any suggestions? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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