How to seal the deal

[Dougie_D]

I've come to a conclusion...

I'm not very good looking but I have the guts to approach a girl in a crowd.

I can talk to them and start a semi-conversation...

When is the best time to ask for there number? Or how do you ask them?

Thanks!

[dopexile]

Best time is right before you're going to leave their company... just don't make a huge deal about it... say something like well I've got to goto here but I would love to continue this conversation... is there a number I can reach you at? Be smooth

[EvaGina]

if you are in a club, have fun and make nice... and ALWAYS leave when the conversation is going really well... they will remember you on a good note then

 

just in the middle of conversation, say "I have to go, ill see you around"

and they WILL come talk to you when they walk past later (Assuming you stay in the club)

 

thats when you ask for their number

 

Mystery Method 101

[heloladies21]

It's best to do it in the flow of conversation. The more you do it and analyze it, the better you'll develop an intuition for it. I usually look for positive "indicators of interest" (credit link removed). Good eye contact, facing you when you talk to her, responds positive to your physical contact, initiates physical contact with you, reinitiates conversation with you when you stop it, laughes at your jokes So many different ways you can get the vibe. But make sure to pull the trigger on it when the opportunity arises or else she'll get weirded out that you didn't ask her and get the impression that either you're not 100% interested in her (will trigger her insecurities) or that you don't have the guts to ask her (low self confidence/self esteem). You'll be fine, just keep trying out there and post back here your results, get more specific about your experiences and be analytical about it so you can get more exact feedback.

 

And be proud of yourself because most guys don't have the guts to approach the way you do. You're way ahead of the pack already.

[Day_Walker]

It all depends on your tactic. You can ask for her number during the conversation after you have gotten a positive vibe from this girl. You can end the conversation by saying you will see her later and then before either of you leave you can get her number. It really doesnt matter when you get her number the general idea is to have a short conversation with her then you want to go in for the number.

[Leon]

You could ask for their msm or something, I just say that my msm list is looking pretty sad right now and would like to add them. Maybe I could tell them about something funny if I ever catch them on.

[Altruist]

Make it brief. I would rather ask for an e-mail first. You can then e-mail her and arrange to hang out. Some girls will give you their phone number when you ask for their email number. The good thing about asking for an email number is that it doesn't put the girls' defenses up when you ask for it. Have a pen and paper ready. While she's writing her email address you can also say "..and write your name there as well". Don't stick around for longer than is necessary otherwise you will make an idiot out of yourself.

[ghost69]

make it brief. don't harp on it hard. if you ask for it as if you casually are asking...perfect. make sure it is just before you end the conversation and are having a good vibe. if the vibe isn't there, a possible shut down may be coming. but the fact that you talked and didn't care about what you look like versus how attractive the woman is,....confidence speaks a lot and will get you way more woman than a more attractive guy who is shy.

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