Aschleigh Posted February 7, 2007 Share Posted February 7, 2007 take it slower be honest about my need for emotional support give him and myself more space stress how important communication is to me find someone will similar life goals be emotionally present to myself let go of a lot more stuff have more fun find someone who is already emotionally available not try to make him be it be kinder to myself express my anger better date someone older, more experienced what will you do differently? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
karvala Posted February 7, 2007 Share Posted February 7, 2007 All of the above, possibly apart from the last (an excellent list!). Plus one or two othere that probably overlap to some degree Remember how I was at the beginning and try to remain that way Don't forget about other people Continue to work on myself Learn ways of communicating Learn to share a common dream Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
VeganBohemian Posted February 7, 2007 Share Posted February 7, 2007 I'm not single, but I am going to list the things I am doing differently in my current relationship that I had to work on since my last one (which is why this one is lasting way longer, 1.5 years). -Trusting -Realizing which expectations of mine are rational or irrational -Thinking about long term compatibility instead of short term -Not blowing up when something bothers me...being more compassionate about his situations -Being more carefree and having fun more -Letting the relationship take its own course, not forcing it Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
skyblue1 Posted February 7, 2007 Share Posted February 7, 2007 Be myself Communicate more not give my all Not be too nice for then to walk over me Express my feeling more open Love myself more learn from them show them love Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
finewhine Posted February 8, 2007 Share Posted February 8, 2007 Find someone to whom I'm incredibly attracted Not take any crap Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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