Sean Posted February 7, 2007 Share Posted February 7, 2007 Ok, so I am dating this wonderful girl Kayla, and I do mean wonderful! She is smart, kind, loving, caring, etc. and really, I haven't been this happy in a long time. Also being with her has helped me improve myself, I am actually trying to keep this relationship going and I am totally committed to her, which has not happened to me since Middle School to be honest. She is just everything I look for in a woman, however her friend is alittle concerned. See, back when Kay was 15 (she's now 18) she knew this guy name David, and well, Kay fell in love with him. Now David was gay, so I don't know how to classified this love. However, David was her first true love, and it was really powerful. However David was killed by this guy because he was gay. This shattered Kay's heart, and well it had a pretty devistating affect on her. Now fast forward to Kay and I, and we're getting along great, neither one of us has never been this happy, and I really do mean happy. Both of our sets of friends never saw us this happy. However, her friend Jess, is concerned because well, she thinks that Kay is trying to replace David with me. Now it is true that I do remind Kay of David and she says that sometimes I do act like him. She also wrote in her blog that "...it's like having Davey back..." However, I really don't have a problem with this. I have talked to Kay about this, and she assured me that she like me for me, and will love me for me. She even wants to love me like she loved David. Look, I don't know if she is trying to replace me with David, and honestly I could never do that. I mean David was a pretty important person in her life, and I understand and respect that, and I have no problems with him always being her first true love, and really, I hope that I experience that type of love too because I never have. I just think that when Kay does talk about how much I remind her of David, she's just noticing how I share some of the traits of someone she loved, and I don't see that as a bad thing. What do you guys think? Quote Link to comment
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