If she initiates a conversation is she interested?

[scotty77]

I think the answer to this question is yes.What do you guys think?I'm not talking about the cashier in a store who has to make small talk as part of her job but let's say a woman at a gym approaches you and says,''you have been working out for quite a while now haven't you''.Personally I think there are 3 situations in which a woman will initiate a conversation:1.She is trying to sell you something.2.She is looking for information such as directions or 3.She is interested.I realize in reality things are likely not that black and white but in my opinion I think if a woman initiates a conversation it is a huge sign that she is interested.

[MrSparky]

I'd say there's a chance she's interested - although try and imagine if it were a guy (ignoring the gym situation! That'd be slighty... hmm!) just chatting out of friendly situation - would it be fair to start a conversation with a stranger in these circumstances? If you think "actually, yeah... if I was there I may say hey to a guy here....". But if you think that you were both doing separate things, then yes - she may be initiating a conversation out of interest.

 

Hell - the only way to find out is to have confidence (and be prepared for a set back!) and just talk to them, be interested in them - it'll be pretty obvious if they were doing it because they were interested.

 

Oh - and if there's a chance you'll see 'em again (like the gym!) don't rush anything on 'first contact' - all the time in the world

[Kevin T]

It definitely shows interest.

[Daligal83]

I agree with MrSparky. It depends on the circumstance. If she comes up to you out of nowhere, there's a good chance she's interested. Some girls are just friendly and chatty though. I'm the type of person that talks to whoever is next to me in line if I feel they'll talk too, doesn't matter if it's a guy for girl. I'm not hitting on that person though.

[anggrace]

Just because I talk to a guy or initiate conversation doesn't mean Im interested, or selling something, or need something. Sometimes Im just being friendly. Accually, thats usually the case.

[licorice_allsort]

Yeh, depends on the situation, and what she says. If she approaches you to tell you you've left the headlights on in your car then she might just be trying to help. If she says something like "I've never seen you before, do you come here often?" That's a definite green light!!

[lifestream]

I've met plenty of girls who are friendly just for the sake of being friendly and kind of confuse the guy.

[Iceman26]

''you have been working out for quite a while now haven't you''.

 

I think she is interested. She made a point to initiate contact by telling you that she has noticed you at the gym.

[scotty77]

Unfortunately Ice,that particular comment from the girl at the gym happened quite some time ago and the moment with that girl has passed.