shep88ner Posted February 5, 2007 Share Posted February 5, 2007 ok...i have a question for the ladies...this is something i have in mind for my girlfriend here coming up. we always have normal every day sex and i was looking for a way to "wow" her...here's what i was thinking... get her in my bed and have all my things hidden. so then after kissing her a bit, tell her to turn around and i'd blindfold her. after that id have her lay back down and i'd kiss her some more...but at the same time, w/o her knowing because she cant see....i'd handcuff her to the bed from both arms. then slowly work my way till she's naked or whatever then go down on her...maybe get whipcream or something. then just go from there.... would that be "hot" or not ladies? cause i dont want to look stupid if i try it... thanks Link to comment
HellFrost666 Posted February 5, 2007 Share Posted February 5, 2007 Allright, I know you want women to answer this question. I'm a guy, so forgive me. Do you know she would be comfortable with being handcuffed? Because if you two have never talked about that and she has never expressed an interest in Bondage that might really freak her out. Link to comment
shep88ner Posted February 5, 2007 Author Share Posted February 5, 2007 yea...it's kind of come up before in conversation, she'd be up for it. that's one thing i wanted to be sure of before i thought about it Link to comment
quietgrl Posted February 5, 2007 Share Posted February 5, 2007 Hey,I'm not your girlfriend but i like your handcuff and blindfold romantic plans.The only problem i have is i rather handcuff and blindfold the man. I have handcuff and i'm still waiting to handcuff a man so go for it shep88ner(LOL). Link to comment
PittItaliano Posted February 5, 2007 Share Posted February 5, 2007 I would make sure that your girlfriend wouldn't be freaked out by you just pulling all these things out to use on her without her expecting it. (specially since it is your first time doing this.) She may have said she'd be comfortable being tied down and everything, but if you just spring it on her, she may feel akward about it. Link to comment
shep88ner Posted February 5, 2007 Author Share Posted February 5, 2007 nah....we've discusssed how we need to do something crazy and she even saw pics of people with handcuffs and said "ooh....are you taking notes?" and stuff....so she'd be completely cool with it. but if somehow she wasnt i'd stop. Link to comment
starlight Posted February 5, 2007 Share Posted February 5, 2007 Maybe instead of handcuff's you could use loosely tied ties. At least she can remove them if she get's too uncomfortable. If she's happy with the ties then maybe next time you can try handcuffs. Link to comment
MacGyverRI Posted February 5, 2007 Share Posted February 5, 2007 use a "safe word", if she says it you must stop. thick fluffy yarn or lace ribbon works well also and wont cut like cuffs can. Link to comment
NKP Posted February 5, 2007 Share Posted February 5, 2007 Yep i find that very HOT, if she seem ok looking at picture with you and told you to take note, then i am sure she would love for you to do it to her, i know i would love it Link to comment
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