shellshocked Posted February 4, 2007 Posted February 4, 2007 Was wondering, do any of you cry sometimes after you have an orgasm? And if yes, how do you feel about it? Me, I sometimes do. And I don't like how it feels at all. First, because I'm not sure why it happens or where it comes from. Second, it makes me feel vulnerable.
EvaGina Posted February 4, 2007 Posted February 4, 2007 I have heard of that, but never experienced it. and Orgasm releases a huge amount of hormones into your system, so it could just be that.
applepie Posted February 4, 2007 Posted February 4, 2007 Crying is the last thing I feel like doing. I'm in ecstasy, so I just have a huge smile on my face and flushed cheeks.
shellshocked Posted February 4, 2007 Author Posted February 4, 2007 Crying is the last thing I feel like doing. I'm in ecstasy, so I just have a huge smile on my face and flushed cheeks. It's not that I feel sad. And the times it happens, the orgasm is usually intense and THAT part of it feels great. It kind of feels like i have this H U G E release that's not only physical, but emotional as well....and i feel open, and vulnerable afterwards. Sometimes, I also laugh after having an orgasm. And that i LOVE. Both are something that I can't control and it just happens. And it doesn't seem to be based on anything i'm consciously feeling at the time. (i.e., happy, sad, whatever...) I have a hard time with emotions anyway. At least anything other than "happy ones", so that may be why i don't like when the crying part happens. My gf loves when it happens though... She says it makes her feel closer to me.....
applepie Posted February 4, 2007 Posted February 4, 2007 I guess it must have something to do with hormones then. Kind of like when some people cry for no reason with PMS. I'd say it's normal and if it doesn't bother you or your girlfriend, then just enjoy it!
EvaGina Posted February 4, 2007 Posted February 4, 2007 My gf loves when it happens though... She says it makes her feel closer to me..... That makes sense... I like it when my bf opens up to me as well, Im just glad it doesnt happen after sex!!
AwdreeHpburn Posted February 4, 2007 Posted February 4, 2007 Its a total hormonal release - one I personally hate. I've become SOOO much more like this since having kids. I do it occasionally - and I don't care for it.....
caro33 Posted February 4, 2007 Posted February 4, 2007 Yes I have cried a few times. Sometimes I haven't been sure why at all. Other times it's just felt like a huge release and my body has kind of merged the emotional stuff with the physical. It doesn't tend to last long, but when I have had a cry it's sometimes been a huge wail - not very sexy. Husband is not freaked out about it anymore, we crack jokes about it .
anggrace Posted February 4, 2007 Posted February 4, 2007 There have been a couple occasions when I had to hold back the tears. I really don't know why I felt that way.(????) I kinda figured that mabey sometimes after such a strong release it just happens. Ive never let myself cry though because I didn't want to scare my bf or worry him. Its kinda strange though. Good question.
vandgsmom Posted February 4, 2007 Posted February 4, 2007 Nope. After orgasm, I want to eat. I want to get up and get something to drink, and eat, and then sleep. lol I think every partner I have ever had has said that I am better sexually suited to being a man. I don't like all night sex. I like no foreplay, quick action, and then food.... lol
applepie Posted February 4, 2007 Posted February 4, 2007 haha I'm a bit like that too Vandgsmom. I don't even like to cuddle. I just like to have a huge glass of water and then go to sleep.
HarleyHunny Posted February 5, 2007 Posted February 5, 2007 I have. But only with the man I was truly in love with. I found it to be wonderful.
Portage Posted February 5, 2007 Posted February 5, 2007 Geez i must be missing out. I've never once cried during sex. *scratches head and wonders if i've been doing something wrong all these years*
vandgsmom Posted February 5, 2007 Posted February 5, 2007 You should try eating afterwards instead, Onelastgo... A perfect turkey sandwhich with honey mustard after an orgasm will make you cry just as good. Tears of turkey delicious joy.
Portage Posted February 5, 2007 Posted February 5, 2007 ^ YUM I'm glad you didn't throw strips of bacon on that turkey sandwhich. Food can definitely (at times) turn my crank more....you are on Vandgsmom & i'll post the results. *puts turkey and honey mustard on list before next wild weekend*
Deviant_Kate Posted February 5, 2007 Posted February 5, 2007 I've had a few tears well up after particularly intense orgasms two or three times, but actual crying, no. It's the same kind of teary-eyes I get if my girlfriend does something incredibly sweet. Happy tears.
luvursmile Posted February 5, 2007 Posted February 5, 2007 It happened to me once I think. But it was when I was going through something kind of emotional...if I say it here, you all will think Im a big cheese-ball....and Ive got a reputation to maintain
zerohalo Posted February 5, 2007 Posted February 5, 2007 ... I'm not precisely sure how orgasms and turkey sandwhiches go together, but why not. As long as you don't pull it out from under the pillow immediately after you orgasm. My ex occasionally cried after she orgasmed, it freaked me out pretty good the first couple of times but after a while I realized it probably was a cathartic thing. She always felt bad when it happened which made it hard for it to become a 'light' issue.
IntoTheFire Posted February 5, 2007 Posted February 5, 2007 Yeah I have done it once. At the time I was like "what the hell?!" but it was as soon as the big O passed that I just couldn't control it, not if my life had depended on it. I still don't really know why it happened. Alot of people put it down to your partner "hitting a spot they don't usually hit" and I think that could be right. It definitely wasn't a sad feeling, more the opposite actually. It was more of a "I can't believe how in love with you I am" feeling.
shellshocked Posted February 6, 2007 Author Posted February 6, 2007 . It definitely wasn't a sad feeling, more the opposite actually. This is how it feels for me too. I don't feel "sad"...and it's not like the tears I get when I'm watching a sad movie or something. It's like a huge sob that comes right at the time of release. No tears...but sobs. And like I said in an earlier post, sometimes it happens (and feels) the same way, only instead of crying... it comes out in uncontrollably, deep laughter. It usually happens when the orgasm is extra big... or touches a place inside of me where it normally doesn't. It feels v e r y powerful when it happens either way. i like a said, it's not ALL the time...sometimes it's just your everyday, run-of-the-mill kind....(NOT that i'm complaining... )
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