Asking out a girl for the first time bad to do thro email?

[56tysmd]

Hey, is asking out a girl for the first time bad to do through email? I mean I don't have the courage to approach her face to face and ask her, and I think im going to sound scared on the phone. Should I just go for it anyway asking her out on the phone?

[Gunther]

If your to skeered to ask her in person then the phone would be good, but I don't think it is respectfull to ask her out over e-mail. maybe you can use ICQ or AIM something of that nature would be more appropriat, although I still think you should at least call her.

[Pengui6668]

Definitely don't do it by email... face to face is best.. honestly what's the worst that can hapen? she'll say no and you move on with your life.. there are much worse things..

[segagirl]

Agree, no email.....phone or face to face. The reality is if you are too scared to ask her out, how are you doing to talk to her on the date. Take the risk, if you really like her...its worth it!

[Happy_Go_Lucky_Heb]

I think it depends on how old u are. If u're say less than 13 years old, it'd b fine. But face 2 face is the only way 2 go 4 me, or at least hint it 2 her that u like her face 2 face.

 

But if u still wanna try the fone, make sure u kno who it is, or it'll be like "hey..do u wanna go out wif me?" "um..wait this is her mother..i'll go get her" or "stay away from my daughter! i have a shotgun in this house!"

 

lol.. it's probably not that bad.

 

'luck

 

Happy Heb

[Sure Shot]

Through my experience, I would not ask over e-mail. I find that people gain a little fearlessness over the internet and will say just about anything whether it is hurtful or not. So, since they can't see you and hear your expressions they feel that they can coordinate an attack plan and just go after you. They can yell and yell and whatever then sign off. Then what are you going to do. I am pretty good at seeing early signs of these situations and then just immediately give them a call. People don't tell ME off!!! Then they pretty much just cool down and you can talk about it. So unless you have a super serious problem asking in person or over the phone I would consider an e-mail a last resort. I think that they would appreciate it more and giving them less time to actually think about it would be pretty advanageous for you. An e-mail could give them time to talk to there friends and go through a big pros/cons list which you might never know about. In person atleast you know it isn't a straight "no" but an "I'll think about it." if that is what you get. Hopefully not!

[Happy_Go_Lucky_Heb]

Yea u got a point, but i guess if u like things the real way or the easy way. If u wanna kno striaght up and why not then emails are pretty good, if u wanna just wonder why not and fake crap then go 4 the fone.

 

Happy Heb