I feel so lost right now...

[Alabama]

I was just finishing working a night shift (till about 2am) and I decided to go to bed. I got a knock on my dorm door and opened it. I was immeditely by three guys dowsed with water in my eyes, with a red pitcher, and I couldn't do anything as they ran and I didn't get a good look. I then felt that was because I was an RA, but am not sure. I was going to ask a girl out the next day, but thought against it. My whole day has been very tiring, and I still have to do more RA work and study for an Economics test this Monday. But I'm thinking of taking the night out on Tuesday. I just feel like such crap, right now.

[Parsley]

Excuse me if I'm being ignorant....what is an RA?

[Alabama]

A Resident Advisor. It's my job to be in charge of a bunch of Freshman in a dormatory and I have to enforce rules, if any are broken.

[annie24]

I'm sorry to hear that. sounds like a stupid prank. sorry you didn't see who it was. i guess you won't open the door as quickly next time. keep studying for the exam and ask the girl out. if she says yes, you'll feel better. and if she says no, at least all the bad things will have happened in one week and then you can look forward to a better week next week.

 

(((HUGS)))

[TheSmilingTurnip]

I was just finishing working a night shift (till about 2am) and I decided to go to bed. I got a knock on my dorm door and opened it. I was immeditely by three guys dowsed with water in my eyes, with a red pitcher, and I couldn't do anything as they ran and I didn't get a good look. I then felt that was because I was an RA, but am not sure. I was going to ask a girl out the next day, but thought against it. My whole day has been very tiring, and I still have to do more RA work and study for an Economics test this Monday. But I'm thinking of taking the night out on Tuesday. I just feel like such crap, right now.

 

Oh honey, I'm so sorry that those jerks decided to mess with you like that. Take it easy on yourself, take the time you need to recharge, and understand that it wasn't about you, but about their immaturity. There's nothing you could have done and no characteristic about you the could have warranted such a thing.