rainynight Posted February 1, 2007 Share Posted February 1, 2007 My fault for getting involved with her in the first place. To all others in affairs or contemplating being part of an affair, GET OUT NOW! Here is the final email I sent her today, a girl that was my first love from high school, that I met up with 2 years ago again. She was married, I am single, and at first I was able to keep it strictly on the physical level, but when she started with the "I Love Yous", I slowly got in deeper and deeper. Recently I found out from joint friend that she and her husband are planning to have another baby, something she denied to me only a few weeks back. Well it's been confirmed that she is now lying to me about it. I never thought it would end this way, as nasty as the tone of my email portrays it. I just couldn't take it anymore, when I found out that she is planning another baby, and all the while, trying to keep me hanging on the line. I had told her before that if she got pregnant by her husband, we were done. I guess she was going to wait until she was definitely pregnant and then break the news to me, and if she didn't get pregnant I guess she figured she has me hanging on the line and that I'd never learn what a lying B she really is. But then again, being a lying B comes as no surprise, it's the core element of an affair! Hey XXXX, I'm going to do you a big favor and free up some more time for you! But in parting I'd like to say a few brief things and make a few observations: First, go back to your PHONY marriage, with your clueless husband. Oh, and you definitely picked the right guy; someone you could manipulate and use for your own benefit. He's a nice guy, too nice for you, and deserves better, as do I. I'm glad I'm not in his position! You do play the part of the perfect little housewife quite well. Too bad he doesn't know who you really are or what you are all about, I do. Don't worry, our little secret is safe with me. Piece of advice sweetie, "Women who love their husbands don't **** other guys." You've had your fun, will get away Scott free as always, gotten what you wanted from me, as I have from you too. So, take care and good luck with that, "being 80% happy in your marriage", thing; I hope it all works out for you in the end. Ouch, 80%, that would crush him if he knew that! I don't know what's worse, living the lie that you and I have been doing for 2 years, or living the lie that he's living and will live for the rest of his life. I'm guessing the latter is worse because being made a fool for so long, without your knowledge, not only shows a total lack of true love, it shows a total lack of respect. Love and respect go and hand in hand. You can't have one without the other. But I guess in your world you can....Alphonse Quote Link to comment
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