never-too-late Posted February 1, 2007 Share Posted February 1, 2007 It's killing me to feel this way. I am suffering so much. My long-distance boyfriend told me 2 weeks ago how unhappy he is with our long-distance relationship. He has been complaining about it a lot these days. Anyway, we both agreed that we will try our best to move closer to each other within the next 6 months. He has been having a hard time at work with his boss and because of that he has not been promoted as he had hoped to. He has been telling how upset he is that I cannot be there close enough to him. He has been telling me that he is tired of this and it's upsetting him. He said he has needs that I cannot satisfy since I am not close enough to him. So 2 days ago he told me that he wants be less involved with me and to take a distance. He wants to do this until our situation changes. He said that if I want to continue our relationship, I need to accept this. He said that he still loves me and he cares for me but he does not want to spend his time talking on the phone all the time. I was quite shocked. He said that he needs to take the distance to stand the situation but I have the feeling he wants to meet someone else or he has already met someone else? I asked him and he said that there is noone else and he would tell me if there was. However, why would he want to take a distance, now after giving each other the target to be closer? I asked him yesterday if we could talk. He called me after work and I started to question him about it. I said to him that I feel strange about it and I worry. He said that he tried to explain to me how he feels and I should try to respect it.He said that when he sees all of his friends with their girlfriends being close to them, he gets upset. He said that he is fed up of being the perfect boyfriend when he sees me only once in a while. I asked him again if it means he is with someone else, at this point he got upset and said to me that no there is noone else and that he has so much worry from work and I only add to his worry. He is coming to see me next week but I am feeling so strange and confused? Do you think it means that he has met someone else but does not want to tell me? Why would he want to take a distance and be less involved with me? I did not talk to him today but I feel there is something going on that I don't know? Please help. Quote Link to comment
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