Cyprian Posted January 30, 2007 Share Posted January 30, 2007 Its a long story, but to make it short: she studied abroad in Europe, cheated on me, concealed it from me, came back to the states and never told me until I found out. She said she loves me but is not "in love" with me and cannot deal with losing me as her best friend. She wants me as her best friend. I cried on the phone to her (she is living accross the country to finish up college) and begged, etc, but at that time I didn't know she loved this guy. When I realized she loved him, and I realized that she is MOVING TO EUROPE to be with him, I broke off contact with her (after yelling and both crying on the phone) and now she hasn't called me. Should I continue No Contact with her in hopes that I might be able to win her back and if not I will gain some self respect? Or should I break no contacts (since she is leaving the country soon) so I can tell her I can set her free, forgive her of her mistakes, and be the friend that she really wants. We would both be so happy if we could just talk again...but I love her enough to hope that she will come back around to me. I have read so many posts here but none of them deal with establishing no contacts with someone who is LEAVING THE COUNTRY and might never return...what do I do? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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