TornTattered Posted January 30, 2007 Share Posted January 30, 2007 Well.. its been 5 months since the break. I'd say i have been completely over her for two months now. But, i do have a question. She has spoken to me (aim) a few times asking how i am and such... pretty much shootin the bull. For the most part i have blown her off. The few times that we have talked she has felt compelled to tell me everything about herself. Like how she stays out til 6 in the morning partying now. Or how she drinks so much.. blah blah blah.](*,) I tried being a friend and all..but i just dont want to hear it anymore. Everything she tells me is boring and booze related. Its like she leads no life. I get nothing out of the conversations. So i have come to the point where i dunno if I should just tell it like it is. My b-day is this weekend, and i know she will im me. I generally dont enjoy talking to her. I do not find her attractive. I am not trying to get her back. And if she were a regular friend i would have already dropped her. Should i go ahead and let her know that I dont enjoy the conversations and dont want her to talk to me anymore? This is what i would do with any other person. Or should i just dissappear without saying anything? I feel like i should be the one here to end it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
flower99 Posted January 30, 2007 Share Posted January 30, 2007 Personally i'd blow her off (but that's just cause i hate confrontations) but if you can, defineitly just end it. it seems pointless to me. You've got nothing in common anymore & your only pretending to have a friendship..it's not real.So let her know & wish her happiness Good luck, I think it's a wise decision. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TornTattered Posted January 30, 2007 Author Share Posted January 30, 2007 Thanks flower99. That is pretty much how i feel right now. I dont see her as the same person i loved a long time ago. Nor do i see her even remotely close to a friend. a) because once i told her i loved her, friends are no longer an option. and b) because i dont keep friends that annoy me. I just want to know other people's input so i know whether or not this is the right thing to do. ps. i miscounted. haha. Its been 6 months. Stupid math. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
flower99 Posted January 31, 2007 Share Posted January 31, 2007 I just want to know other people's input so i know whether or not this is the right thing to do. ps. i miscounted. haha. Its been 6 months. Stupid math. damn math...lol If she annoys you & you have no friendship...Yes it's definietly the right thing to do. Because really, it would suck if my friends thought I was annoying & didn't want to be friends with me...only did it out of obligation... I would just prefer that they stop pretending. (: I totally think it's the right thing to do. You know you have nothing left between you two. So cut the string. Good luck to you Torn & Tattered Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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