buffscotty Posted January 25, 2007 Posted January 25, 2007 Dear posters, I wish to tell a story and hear some feedback. I went to a bar with some friends last night and met a girl I knew from school. I went to her house after the bar and we made out for a while and I stopped and went out to the couch and slept. Let me tell a backstory so you can know my whole tale. Last year I had sex with a girl I had been dating for a week or so, and I hated myself for it. I wasn't in love with her and just did it I think out of, well I'm not sure why, and I feel the same way about what I did last night. I promised myself I wouldn't ever do that again last year, and last night I did that, and I feel just terrible and very shamed. Am I a bad person or does anyone have any advice to help out. Thanks again.
robowarrior Posted January 25, 2007 Posted January 25, 2007 Only involve yourself with a partner that you love.
buffscotty Posted January 25, 2007 Author Posted January 25, 2007 I'm not ashamed of being horny/wanting someone. But I personally do not wish to have any sexual physical contact with someone I'm not in a serious relationship with. Call it corny and old-fashioned, but that is just the way I am.
HurleyBabe6917 Posted January 26, 2007 Posted January 26, 2007 I'm not ashamed of being horny/wanting someone. But I personally do not wish to have any sexual physical contact with someone I'm not in a serious relationship with. Call it corny and old-fashioned, but that is just the way I am. More guys need to be like that.
buffscotty Posted January 26, 2007 Author Posted January 26, 2007 It wasn't the alcohol, I've drank many times (I wasn't even drunk) and have never had this problem. I am just ashamed at myself for letting my morals go, I feel like dirt. I guess all there is to do is to not let it happen again. I lost my virginity last year and am forever ashamed of myself because I wished I would have saved it for the girl I fall in love with, but there is no use crying over spilt milk I guess.
hey jo Posted January 26, 2007 Posted January 26, 2007 don't put yourself down too much bud. pick yourself up, dust yourself off, and start again. i know you feel terrible about it. but the thing is, everytime we stumble, we learn a very important lesson in life. learn from this experience bud. you'll be more wiser.
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