Am I a bad person

[buffscotty]

Dear posters, I wish to tell a story and hear some feedback. I went to a bar with some friends last night and met a girl I knew from school. I went to her house after the bar and we made out for a while and I stopped and went out to the couch and slept. Let me tell a backstory so you can know my whole tale. Last year I had sex with a girl I had been dating for a week or so, and I hated myself for it. I wasn't in love with her and just did it I think out of, well I'm not sure why, and I feel the same way about what I did last night. I promised myself I wouldn't ever do that again last year, and last night I did that, and I feel just terrible and very shamed. Am I a bad person or does anyone have any advice to help out. Thanks again.

[robowarrior]

Only involve yourself with a partner that you love.

[buffscotty]

I'm not ashamed of being horny/wanting someone. But I personally do not wish to have any sexual physical contact with someone I'm not in a serious relationship with. Call it corny and old-fashioned, but that is just the way I am.

[HurleyBabe6917]

I'm not ashamed of being horny/wanting someone. But I personally do not wish to have any sexual physical contact with someone I'm not in a serious relationship with. Call it corny and old-fashioned, but that is just the way I am.

 

More guys need to be like that.

[Kevin T]

I agree completely.

[buffscotty]

It wasn't the alcohol, I've drank many times (I wasn't even drunk) and have never had this problem. I am just ashamed at myself for letting my morals go, I feel like dirt. I guess all there is to do is to not let it happen again. I lost my virginity last year and am forever ashamed of myself because I wished I would have saved it for the girl I fall in love with, but there is no use crying over spilt milk I guess.

[hey jo]

don't put yourself down too much bud.

 

pick yourself up, dust yourself off, and start again.

 

i know you feel terrible about it. but the thing is, everytime we stumble, we learn a very important lesson in life. learn from this experience bud. you'll be more wiser.