help

[fifi]

while my bf is kissing me he stays with his eyes oped!!!!!!

why?

this scares me

[NKP]

Some people like to have there eyes open, some like them close, everyone is different, it is completely normal what he does, just tell him it scares you when his eyes are open

[shellshocked]

Sometimes people get turned on and excited by watching

the other person kissing them...

 

(i don't keep my eyes open...but sometimes i peek)

[Weeblie]

Someone once told me to never trust a guy who kisses with his eyes open. I think that's like some old superstition or something.

 

Anyways, my ex used to do the same thing too and I HATED it. It's just odd looking. Like he's not paying attention. I know it's normal, but I just don't like it. A little peek here and there is ok, but wide-eyed open the whole time?

 

 

^^^

very creepy.

 

You should talk to your boyfriend about it. I told my ex that it was very distracting and he cut down on the staring.

[Biffy]

 

You should talk to your boyfriend about it. I told my ex that it was very distracting and he cut down on the staring.

 

Or seductively hold his face while you're kissing... with your hand over his eyes so he has to close them!

 

 

And how do you know he keeps his eyes open unless you too are 'guilty' of it!?

[northwoods]

I had an ex-girlfriend that did it and it freaked me out. I said something to her about it and then it became more and more obvious that her eyes were open.

 

I'm glad my current g/f doesn't do that.

[Weeblie]

You caught me Zombiain.

 

Actually I like to open my eyes a little when things are shifting to make sure my aim is correct. And one time I saw him just staring at me wide-eyed. After that I kept looking at him and he was still staring.

 

I mean it's one thing being looked at with those sexy sleepy bedroom eyes, but wide-open? Yech.

[addictedblue]

one time when i was at a school dance i saw this couple making out and both their eyes were wide open...it was so weird. maybe he doesn't realize that he's supposed to close them?

[Aleadragonhawk]

Like others have said, some people just like to keep their eyes open while kissing. Try just talking to your boyfriend about it - ask him why he likes to keep his eyes open.

[ChocoBB]

I kissed a guy with his eyes open..totallly weird I told him but he said he liked to watch I tried not to bother...lol..it is really weird..I guess that is how kissign has always been seen by societey with the Eyes shut tight...lol

[zerohalo]

Actually some people kiss with their eyes open because they have trust issues. Kissing is an intimate act that does require trust, I mean think about it, your eyes are closed and you're oblivious to the world. I just wanted to throw that in there because it's not always about just wanting to watch.