Demonblade Posted January 25, 2007 Posted January 25, 2007 I like my friend and I she likes me, but she says she doesn't want to be in a relationship until after graduation (which is this June). She said that we could be together then if I were still interested. It's almost Valentine's Day and I don't know what to get her. I don't want it to seem too much like what a BF would give to his GF. I want to give her something that shows how much I care for her. I don't want to buy her something. I already bought her a gift from the heart for Christmas (I bought her a necklace). I want to give her something made from my heart. I used to write love poetry. Should I try to write her a love poem? Or should I write her a letter letting her know how much she has affected my life, how much I appreciate her and how I feel about her. But I don't know how. I don't know what to do. I know what I want to say, but I am afraid it might be too much too soon. How can I avoid doing this? What else can I do? I don't know. I'm racking my brain for something I can do or write that won't freak her out or make her feel awkward or something. Any help? Please? ](*,)
Katerimo Posted January 25, 2007 Posted January 25, 2007 Firstly keep it light hearted, valentines day is a bit of fun so you want to make something fun with a personal touch, perhaps reminders of the good times you have both had, and why you both enjoy each others company so much. I made a card for my b/f for valentines by writing a list of top ten memories and finding pictures online, printing and cutting them out and making a collage by sticking them in a card. Example we met in a supermarket so put a pic of a trolley in it! This is cute and personal but also light hearted. Keep the poems for next valentines when you're going out
Demonblade Posted January 25, 2007 Author Posted January 25, 2007 Well, the thing is. We met at school. I was depressed one day and I got up from where I was sitting (because the people sitting next to me were real annoying) and sat at another table, not knowing that there were a bunch of other people sitting there. I looked up and that's when we first saw each other. We didn't talk until the next semester, but that was small talk. Then summer vacation came up, I got happy and when school started back up I asked her out and she said yes. But I can't think of anything to make or write. I know what I want to say, but I can't get any of it into words. I'm getting headaches from thinking about how to get them into words and I've been thinking for the past 3 weeks.
notsomuch Posted January 26, 2007 Posted January 26, 2007 My vote is for a handmade cartoon of you both, I made a guy one once and he loveeed it.
Demonblade Posted January 27, 2007 Author Posted January 27, 2007 I can't draw at all. I don't think I can draw a cartoon. I'm more of a writer. I want to write her something, but I can't figure out how to get anything into words. This is the first time I've ever dealt with not knowing what to write (and I know it's not writer's block because I just wrote a random poem yesterday). Why can't I write anything? Kind of third grade but, maybe I should make a heart valentine?
notsomuch Posted January 30, 2007 Posted January 30, 2007 Writing her a poem would definitely appeal, are you musical at all? A song would have a similar effect. The thing about valentine's day is that you can get away with doing very lame things and it's seen as cute.
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