Should I sex up my friend?

[Serpent Queen]

I have been cuddling, groping and sleeping (ONLY sleeping) with my friend and this physical relationship has been going on for a few weeks. Normally, I would just hop on in there and get out some of my sexual tension,

but the problem is he's been my close friend for about 5 years.

 

I just got out of a horrid 3 year relationship (about 2 months ago with a woman) , and don't want another one yet.

He doesn't want one either cause he says he's got a "sweet-heart"

in CA.

 

So, I'm nervous because I haven't slept with a man in a long time....

and also because we have a good friendship.

 

He's been making the moves (which are hard for me to resist but I have thus-far) and I REALLY want to give in 'cause I miss the male carrot, if you know what I mean.

 

QUESTION: Should I ??????

[spiderman_56]

lol ... the fine battle between the mind and body

what about you get any other guy to make u cool off ....

but if it's really hot and passionate, and u are both mature and can handle that type of relationship ... i would go for it ...

but hey that's just me... i like to tango with fire

[college_girl]

if he's making the moves, he obviously wants the same thing....i say go for it.

[Northalius]

I'd say do not do anything, even if he tries to. You just said he has a "sweet-heart" in CA. You don't want to get mixed up in that, and out of respect for this person also, you shouldn't.

[gfein347]

I agree with northalius. Despite the precedent you've set, I think you need to treat this situation as if this guy had a girlfriend.

[Blue Skittles]

No, bad idea. My friend did this (slept with a good friend of hers she had been getting cuddly with) and it was REALLLLY awkward after. I'm sure they will rebuild the friendship but the awkwardness was horrible to deal with.

[Serpent Queen]

I know for a fact that the CA girl isn't exclusive.

EH? any COMMENTS?