NEED some serious advise..

[Rlet11]

I was with the same guy for over 3 years. When we went to college, we both decided to take a break and try and do our own thing for a little. All along, we still talked everyday, said we loved eachother and did everything pretty much a normal couple would do except we could be with other people. It was rediculous. we did this for an entire year. Finally, i told him that it was all or nothing. All i wanted to do was be with him. He never decided to give me the commitment i wanted. So, not to long after, i started dating someone else. This guy i have had a thing for for a very long time. He is the person who my exboyfriend has hated the most. We have been together now for about 6 months. things are going okay, but its just not the same as my previuos relationship. I never stop thinking about my other boyfriend, and i cannot tell my new boyfriend that i love him. Even sometimes when i feel it, the words just will not come out. I just was so in love with my other boyfriend i feel as though i can never actually love this new guy. I still talk to my old boyfriend. He still wants to be with me. It is horrible because i am holding on to both of them. I dont know what to do. My new boyfriend is very attatched. He wants to be with me every second, and he also moved here and is going to school in my town to be with me. I just dont know what to do, please someone give me some advise.

[robowarrior]

You aren't being honest against yourself or to these 2 guys. Sometimes both choices are bad , and this is where it is the case that neither guys are good for you. You don't love the guy that you are currently with. And you can't have a long term relationship or future with the guy that you do love.

 

So leave both of them, and find a guy that can have a long term future with you, and who you love to pieces.