Her ex's ex

[andyg]

Ok, my girlfriend and I had a problem with her being overly close with an ex at one point. Before she and I got together, she slept with him while he had a girlfriend. While we were together their communication almost ruined our relationship so she gave him up completely, stopped talking to him threw out pictures, all that stuff... DONE. So now, she's started having conversations with the girl he cheated on with her. She say's they're both bad mouthing him, is this something I sould worry about at all? or is it still her having an unhealthy attachment to him?

[Iceman26]

So now, she's started having conversations with the girl he cheated on with her. She say's they're both bad mouthing him, is this something I sould worry about at all? or is it still her having an unhealthy attachment to him?

 

That sounds very Jerry Springerish and I'd say she isn't over him.

 

Why else would she be talking crap about a guy she isn't with anymore?

 

My vote is for unhealthy attachment. I'd like to think if she were really into you she wouldn't be doing what she is doing.