Why? Please help.

[leewils]

So here's the deal, we split up we get back then split and this happens every time i start to get over her. The only reason she wanted to give it another shot was because she didnt want me with someone else so i move on again and then she gets in touch again askin all the same questions about who ive been with but i then find out she has been away with her ex on holiday and this was after her tellin me she wouldnt go near him because she has self respect and didnt reply to his messages, it was all lies!! I never even found out from her she posted it on a friends web page where some of her friends are my friends.

 

So she has lie'd to me, held me back from movin on and taken the pi*s out of me. We had a massive fight and she kept going on about good terms but i was to pi*sed off and didnt want to talk but then i gave in this morning and gave her what she wanted (a good luck msg, i was sorry about the fight and hope u keep well) i also said not to reply because i'l be fine but iam not fine iam so lost, sad and just feel like iam going to have nothing in my life and our time together was false. I feel like i wont be able to get over this and get to the place i was before she got in touch because i miss her more now noing that she cares for her ex and back with him.

 

What should i do? Focus on how i was before and remember that all thats changed is her ex is involved? for sure stick to N/C even though i want to talk to her so much and hate that she's fine and iam back to square one.

 

Help please.

[robowarrior]

You made your decision, you don't want to be with her. Don't rip up open wounds and initiate contact again. If you don't want her in your life block her out 1000%

[Orlander]

Sorry you are in pain leewils. If she won't take you back then you have but one course of action. You must begin NC and stay on it.

 

Orlander

[leewils]

I can stick to no contact but she keeps on gettin in touch after a while just when i start to cum round to it bein over for good, its so hard to get over this if she wont leave me alone i need time to get over her and move on.

[leewils]

Cant understand this!!

[Victory]

Yah, the guy I was seeing and really liked just up and left me for his ex too. It really, really, sucks. I guess it feels better knowing that lots of other people go through this too, though. It's not a fun situation to be in at all I guess all we can do is hold our head high and find someone who's not going to just bail. Good luck to you, hang in there.

[leewils]

Your right Victory it does help noing were not alone.