how to ask her i wanna sleep with her?

[werty]

i dont know if this topic belongs here.. but MODS, please do make adjustments if necessary..TY

 

so how do i personaly/face-to-face ask her that i wanna sleep with her? actually she was the one who said she wants to sleep with me but it was through text. she has asked twice this past 2 weeks. but when i personaly ask her if she really means it, she just says that it was just a joke.. duh. maybe i am asking the wrong questions so i need suggestions in how to ask her about this...

[rocio]

Have you tried kissing her? I would start there. If she's into it, then put your hands on her thighs, or on her breast (over her shirt). If she still seems to be enjoying it, kiss her neck. She will get turned on and might even jump you by then. If not, try to take off her shirt. But be gentle and, if she seems hesitant at any point, stop and continue kissing her without pushing for more. Once her shirt is off, the rest should go naturally if it's what she wants.

[Northalius]

i dont know if this topic belongs here.. but MODS, please do make adjustments if necessary..TY

 

so how do i personaly/face-to-face ask her that i wanna sleep with her? actually she was the one who said she wants to sleep with me but it was through text. she has asked twice this past 2 weeks. but when i personaly ask her if she really means it, she just says that it was just a joke.. duh. maybe i am asking the wrong questions so i need suggestions in how to ask her about this...

 

Hope you don't mind me asking:

 

Who is she to you? Official girlfriend? Just started dating? Long time friend wanting to go further?

 

How old're both of you?

 

About the "it was a joke.. duh." response you got: I think she might've been serious, but thought you weren't ready by your response; thus by saying it was just a joke, she'd get out of it, and not be possibly rejected.

 

A joke? I mean, that's a little serious to joke around about... especially twice.

[Mythical_Suicide]

If this is the same girl you have posted about in previous posts, I dont think you need to sleep with her I think you need to break yourself away from this girl. It can only lead to more trouble for you in the long run.

[werty]

yes, its the same girl....

[Mythical_Suicide]

She seems like more trouble than she's worth to be bluntly honest with you.

[rikka]

She seems like more trouble than she's worth to be bluntly honest with you.

 

I've read your other threads and I completely agree with Mythical Suicide. There is too much drama in this situation, definitely not worth your trouble.