samross Posted January 17, 2007 Share Posted January 17, 2007 For those following my posts - should I avoid hugging her unless she offers to hug me ?I know is sounds childish and it's such a little thing but it felt good not waiting to see if she would hug me and just leave. Link to comment
AllTornUp Posted January 17, 2007 Share Posted January 17, 2007 Doesn't sound childish to me. I recommend that you continue to avoid it. Sure, it'll feel wonderful during the hug, but will likely cause pain for you afterwards... Link to comment
stlyooper Posted January 17, 2007 Share Posted January 17, 2007 Don't do it!!! I've shared hugs with my ex twice since our split. It's hard to hold them and not feel like you don't want to let go... but eventually you have to and it hurts even worse afterwards. Save yourself the pain and don't let it happen. It's only temporary relief to any pain you might be feeling because of her, but the pain afterwards and what it could do to your head is much worse. Link to comment
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