Is it me or am I overreacting ? see what you think

[dude123]

Well to cut the long story short just started going out with this new girl. I would say that we have been going out for about 2 weeks now but I am encountering one problem from her side. The problem is that she doesn’t really communicate well with me. What do I mean by that well basically when were not together she doesn’t really call or text until I send her a text myself. Its the same thing with the phone calls but that’s not even the weird part. When we are spending time together she always makes an effort to come by my house and have a little movie night just me and her together. She prefers this more then going out to the movies because this way we get to spend time together just the two of us without anyone interrupting us. We do hang out often and its always a blast I always make her smile and have a good time. I’m the kind of a guy who knows how to treat a lady. We do make out and kiss all the time and it always just feels right when it happens and I know that she enjoys it a lot because her arms always go around my neck and my body when were making out. We did not have sex yet but we were close to it last time that I was with her the only reason I would say it didn’t happen was cause people were bother us. We always hold each other while walking even if its like right there. I did ask her if she is more of a quiet person and dose not like to talk much and she said that not all the time but sometimes she could be quiet and that’s just the way she is. This is what she told me and then afterwards asked if that bothers me I just replied and said no.

 

My question to you guys is this how can I get this girl to talk to me more I mean I don’t want to sound like a crazy man here but the more that I don’t talk to her is the more that I want to see her and spend some time with her or even just talk to her for a little. I’m not even asking for that much. To make things worst on top of everything she goes to school about an hour away. I’m willing to live with that because she seems like she is worth my time and my sacrifices. My father has a house up were she goes to school so I told her my little master plan how I would go down there after I would get out of work and then basically stay there during the weekend and if she was up for it she could spend the night with me at my fathers house. When she heard this she right away told me that she liked the idea with a smile on her face and couldn’t wait for it to actually happen.

 

One last weird part about this whole little situation is that every night ever since she found out that I like her and that I care about her I have been getting a good night text from her. Now that we started going out and that we are much closer to each other she has been sending me good night messages such as good night babe xoxo and I miss you I always reply back and sometimes I send the good night messages first because I start work at 7am and I wake up at about 5am so I’m always out to bed earlier then she might be.

 

Sorry that this was so long I greatly thank to anyone who takes their time and reads it.

[kr356]

I did ask her if she is more of a quiet person and dose not like to talk much and she said that not all the time but sometimes she could be quiet and that’s just the way she is. This is what she told me and then afterwards asked if that bothers me I just replied and said no.

 

My question to you guys is this how can I get this girl to talk to me more

 

 

she seems to be a naturally quiet person, she asked if it bothered you and you told her no, maybe you should bring it up and say that it doesnt bother you but it would be nice if she communicated with you a little more.

 

then again it's only been 2 weeks maybe she is still shy and needs to have some more time to warm up to you

[Momene]

I think you're being a bit impatient and it'll be fine. I could be wearing a bridesmaid's dress in a few years' time!

[dude123]

Its not like I just meet this girl I knew her for over a year and just about 2 weeks ago we started going out. I don't think that she is shy because she already knows me lol I dunno I guess ill just give this all some time and see what happens anyone else has anything to add.

[kr356]

when you go out with someone things change, i started dating a guy I had been friends with for 2 years.. and while it is great, we were both very shy around eachother, which was strange since we had been good friends for so long and we weren't shy around eachother before that..

 

it gets better, it's a big change to go from friends to dating and takes a little bit of time to get used too

[dude123]

thanks for the input guys ill see what happens