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My boyfriend and I recently got to "third base". One finger was fine; not completely stimulating, but it felt good, and still hurt a bit at the same time. I know that starting out it will hurt a bit, but once he tried two fingers... OUCH!! I don't think he even put them in all the way before it hurt. He told me that I was very tight, and now I'm almost scared to have sex in fear that it will hurt really bad. If I can't handle 2 fingers then how the heck am I supposed to take on an erect penis?

 

What I'm asking is will my vagina start to expand after he fingers me for awhile? Or am i stuck being tight forever?

 

Any comments at all are much appreciated.

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No, you wont be stuck being "tight" forever. After the first few times, sex will be less painful and that tightness feeling will go away.

 

Just to add to this a little bit. Remember to relax and make sure you're well lubricated. It'll hurt no matter the size if you're not well lubricated.

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It's not a problem of not being wet enough, I seem to produce enough natural lubrication. I've been thinking about it though, and i think it hurt when he put 2 fingers in is because of the friction from the one finger that had not been in already. So next time i'm with my boyfriend i'll tell him to put one finger in, then the other, and THEN go for two at the same time.

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Tell him to read link removed . It has some great techniques that should really expand the pleasure for both of you. And don't just make him read it by himself...have a bit of naughty fun...lean over him while reading and say "OH, lets try that one!" Make it fun and light-hearted. This will lower your stress level and make you much more...pliable.

 

Have fun!

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