how to cope seeing him with someone else any tips?

[couture]

My boyfriend recently broke up with me because things were getting to "serious" before i move away later this month. He was my first love which makes things tough but i thought i was getting over it fairly well until i bumped into him with another girl whether it was his new gf i don't know and don't want to either but seeing him with someone new just made me feel sick i can't understand how you can say you love someone but finish it because you don't want to develop anymore feelings but yet find someone new?

 

Anyway i was just wondering if anyone had any tips as to how to deal with seeing them together?

[4EverNight]

Seeing someone you love with another person is difficult. The only thing I can say is to avoid the places you might run into him. Though you felt that you were getting over it, it will still hurt, it's to early to completely let go. Some guys are able to move on easily because they may only be looking for that rush when you first meet someone and start dating or maybe knowing that you were leaving he wanted to let go and move on. It's so easy to say say you love someone but to really show it is something else. Sometimes I think people say "I loveyou" too easily. For the person who is hearing this it means to them that they are really in love. By the way, what do you mean by things were getting serious for him? It could be a way out for him just to see someone else. Whatever the case, just let him go and move on woth your life.

[laurelwendel]

I know exactly how you feel. It is hard when you see someone who you cared about and who you thought you loved and was in love with you with someone else. This happened to me a couple of months ago, and I don't know how I handled it if it wouldn't of been for my friends giving me support.

A month or so passed and he finally decided to call and apologize for me having to see him with her. I have no clue what actually happened.

I wish you the best and I my only answer I have is time will heal and you will be able to handle it easier. Take Care

[couture]

By the way, what do you mean by things were getting serious for him? It could be a way out for him just to see someone else. Whatever the case, just let him go and move on woth your life.

 

We both new that it couldn't be a long term thing except for we both fell for each other in a big way but the last time i saw him before he dumped me he had just met my parents and i don't know if that scared him into thinking things were getting to serious because we were both aware that i was moving away and knew that university in the UK and sustaining a relationship is a hard thing to do because its so largely based upon social life here.

 

But maybe he did finish it with me because he could see someone else but the only reason i saw them together was because my town is so small and i wasn't going to stop my friends from going to the pub i knew he'd been in just because he might be there.