Girl likes me and it's getting out of hand...

[kcil]

I wouldnt normally feel like this, hell I find it flattering when people like me but this is getting out of hand.

 

This girl likes me who is my ex's friend. Well, not really. She thought she was my ex's friend but my ex actually hated her. Anyway she met me twice in the summer and both times she barely even talked to me. Then she got my email address by begging my gf (at the time) to give it to her. And when I say begged, I mean literally begged. She called her over and over to get it.

 

I wouldnt have any problems with this so far, but then things started getting a little odd. We talked for 5 min's on msn and she went back and talked to her friends about every little detail. Then she told me the next week that she loved me. Does anybody else think that was a little bit overboard?

 

Anyway, for the next 3 months it was like that, her continuing to tell me that she loved me every few weeks, even though she wasnt really talking to me, it was just over msn. Then my ex broke up with me and started being a total b*tch to me by swearing at me and stuff (but thats another story).

 

But I could deal with it still. Anyway this girl obviously took this as a chance to "be there for me". And thats basically wat its been for 2 months (still only contact was once in a while over msn).

 

Annoying thing is, every time i didnt sign in for a few days shed send a paranoid email because she thought id blocked her.

 

Then it came up again. She said she loved me, and she told all her friends she did too. I told her "look i just dont feel the same way". She was sad but she started to accept it.

Then two weeks ago she said "i lvoe you and i never stopped loving you".

 

Then, she wrote a song about me. She wants to sing it for me.

 

What do i do? I feel terrible if i block her and anyway shed call me if i did that. Ive only seen her in person twice in my life, and we barely talked. The way she talks to her friends and to me its like she thinks im her boyfriend. One time she was talking to her friends about a party that happened, and she said "oh yeah that party was cool. the we stayed up so late and of course, it was where Keith (my name) and I met". What to do... Or am i just overreacting?

[Lady Bugg]

Uhhhh this girl sounds like she's Coo Coo for cocopuffs.........I would limit contact with her as much as possible,otherwise she is DEFIENTELY gonna go psycho on you. Just my opinion.

[Mythical_Suicide]

I agree with Lady bugg, she doesn't sound like the most "stable" (thats an understatement) person especially if she is confessing her love to you and there has never been anything between you two. I'd definitely try to limit contact as much as possible or uhm if possible end it all together.

[addictedblue]

how old are you two??

[Mythical_Suicide]

14.. thats what his other post said atleast.

 

I go back on my statement, you both are obviously young more than likely in a couple of months she'll find her another "lover" and forget all about you. One reason I never played immature middle school dating games.

[zerohalo]

Uhhhh this girl sounds like she's Coo Coo for cocopuffs.........

That's the most spot on analysis of the situation I think anyone could give.