Question to those who have cheated....

[kb109]

Was it worth it? What was the outcome?

[guiltycheater]

no it is definitely not worth it. It takes a long time to get over.

[kb109]

Um, I know ALOT more than two people have cheated on a partner. Let's hear your answers, people!!

[yeawutever]

Well I don't cheat and would never. If I was unhappy in my current relationship, then I would talk it out.

 

Now with this ex of mine, let's say it was a cheat, but I'm not sure since it only lasted for 7 days and nothing developed whatsoever (I would say it was just a fling). So anyways I was on my way of dumping him (found out he was shady and some bad information). But when I kept calling he wouldn't answer so I went with NC. I called again to break up, he answered and it was over. However two days before I had french kissed another guy, so LOL.

 

So to answer your questions:

1) Was it worth it? I dunno and I didn't really care since nothing ever developed, it simply wasn't meant to be

2) What was the outcome? Nothing whatsoever

[Heisinmyheart]

No it was worth it. At all! Between he and I, I suffered the most by allowing myself to hold onto a false hope what "maybe" was.

 

If I had not broken it off, he would have held on probably many more years.

 

It sure is a long time recovering too! It was harder to deal with than a death.

[jengh]

No, it definitely was not worth it... I ruined an amazing relationship....he forgave me but things were never the same again