A quick one

[Akatea]

Hey Guys,

 

I am just curious if anyone else ever feels this way. I have been with my guy for three years now. We have had more than our fair share of problems. For the last six months things have been perfect and I wouldn't change anything, but lately I have been having this horrible feeling that he doesn't love me anymore. I can't even put my finger on why I feel this way, as he hasn't done anything wrong. Nothing has changed except my feelings. I love this guy to bits and would walk to the ends of the earth for him, but can't shake the feeling that my feelings are stronger than his...

Is this just my insecurities getting the better of me? I don't have the greatest self esteem in the world, but its better than what it used to be. Should I talk to him about my feelings? Or would that just be creating issues where there aren't really any?

 

Any feedback would be much appreciated...

 

:sad:

[DN]

Has anyone broken up with you in the past that you really loved?

[Akatea]

This guy is really only my second "serious" relationship. My first love broke up with me about five years ago, and I didn't handle it very well, as we continued to see and sleep with each other right up until I started dating my current BF. Could this be the reason for my feelings?

[DN]

Very possibly - sometimes a past relationship can cast a shadow over a new one. I think you should not say anything for now, make up your mind that he does love you unless you see definite signs that he does not and enjoy the relationship. Don't go looking for trouble - or it may find you.

[Akatea]

Thanks for the adivce DN, Sometimes I have an over reactive imagination and things are sometimes more of a big deal in my head, than they actually are in real life. Its hard because I want to be honest and open with him, but as you say, sometimes go looking for trouble and trouble is exactly what you will find.

[Hope75]

Something I always try to think about if I feel doubt in my relationships is how my guy shows me he cares or loves me (or does not) with his actions.

 

Has anything been happening with your boyfriend recently that has been making you feel this way? How is he behaving? Anything changed?

[Bethany]

Maybe your just scared of your own deepening feelings,rather than him not loving you as much. Look out for the signs that he IS in love with you as much, rather than ones that he is not.