course of action

[hennypenny3288]

If you feel your sig other is shying away from you, even after talking about it, would you?

 

a) pull back and play hard to get

b) confront the individual and demand a reason and solution

c) get upset at the individual

d) do something to get the individual jealous.

e) dump the SOB before he/she dumps you

 

Choose one of the above and provide a reason for said action.

[DN]

f. talk again quietly and calmly, but firmly and clearly, to my SO about my perceptions - and listen carefully to the reply. If I were still not satisfied i would explain why and suggest some sort of counselling.

[anggrace]

What was his responce after talking to him a bout it? How is he shying away and how long have you been together?

[hennypenny3288]

Been together for a little over a year. His response was to deny that things were getting bad. He is shying away by avoiding me, not making plans, that type of thing.

 

Why are most men so dishonest about why they shy away from the women? What happened to honesty and integrity? Did that leave with the advent of the 21st century?