20/33 Long story, But grea love lol

[KellyRene]

Well as the title says. I'm 20 and my fiance is 33.

 

We are so in love. We've together for almost 2 years.

 

I met Tim about 2 1/2 years ago at a car stereo shop that he worked at. Since my friend had a show car being worked on there, i was always hanging around.

 

I started getting to know everyone. Shortly after that I started noticing that Tim was not his usual self. Tim had been married, and he was kicked out of his house. His wife had come up with a foney acusation. and they had a little girl. a couple weeks after that I started to really get to know Tim.

 

One day I had stopped by the shop after work. And a storm was moving in. Well it started to hail. everybody rushed to get all the cars in. After the storm was over, I had gotten up the nerve to give him my card and told him to call me if he ever wanted to just hang out and get his mind of the things going on. His response was, "Well why not now"

 

So we went out to eat and talked for awhile. For a few weeks thats all we did. And it slowly became more. When I told my parents about us, I was surprised that they weren't upset. I started describing him, and they knew who i was talking about, because he has picked up some products from us before. My mom thought he was 25. Well once my parents met him and got to know him, they love him now.

 

He moved in with us and he's been working with my parents with our home business. My parents are helping us so we can get on our feet so we can move out and get married.

 

Sorry everybody for the long story. But I just wanted to share mine and Tims wonderfull story.

 

I truly beleave that age is just a number. It helps when you have so much in common. I know some people wonder, What can you really have in common?

But Tim and enjoy anything to do with cars, and photography, We pretty much have everything in common.

 

He treats me the way i've always wanted to be treated, and I am proof to him that good people do exist.

 

Well thats all. Thanks for reading

[Scout]

Sorry, but your story does not leave me with feelings that age is just a number and this is a healthy relationship. First off, this guy is 33 years old and living with his 20 year old girlfriend's parents. At 33, he can't provide his own roof over his head? Second, he got kicked out of his house by his wife...because she made an accusation about him? That you immediately followed that up with the fact he has a little girl left me feeling very apprehensive. If by any chance she accused him of molesting their little girl, do you not feel slightly uncomfortable by that, especially considering he's dating a girl barely out of her teens and considerably younger than himself - and in fact, started dating her before she was even 18?

 

I'm really surprised your parents are ok with all this.

[KellyRene]

Sorry, but your story does not leave me with feelings that age is just a number and this is a healthy relationship. First off, this guy is 33 years old and living with his 20 year old girlfriend's parents. At 33, he can't provide his own roof over his head? Second, he got kicked out of his house by his wife...because she made an accusation about him? That you immediately followed that up with the fact he has a little girl left me feeling very apprehensive. If by any chance she accused him of molesting their little girl, do you not feel slightly uncomfortable by that, especially considering he's dating a girl barely out of her teens and considerably younger than himself - and in fact, started dating her before she was even 18?

 

I'm really surprised your parents are ok with all this.

 

 

Yea i can see where your coming from..

 

He cannot afford a house because he is currently going to college full time, trying to better his life. Yes he was accused of molesting his little girl, but there was no evidence at all, he has seen a phych and so has his little girl. Autumn loves her father more than anything and was never very fond of her mother.

 

And actually i was already 18, i'll be 21 in a couple months. And no my parents have no bad feelings about him. They know the entire situation. And my father is a great judge of character.

 

Tims Ex-Wife, never loved him and was trying to find an easy way out. They got married because she got pregnant and she didn';t want to disapoint her family.

 

She was pregnant with another mans child after only 2 months of tim being kicked out..

 

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[BeStrongBeHappy]

Please go to the courthouse and look at the papers regarding the potential molestation of his daugther... did it go to trial, was it investigated? if you can find clear evidence that it was a false accusation, then i would be ok, but it makes me nervous that you are just willing to write this off so quickly, especially with the age difference... maybe he is only interested in young girls, and when you are no longer young he will lose interest, or do the same to a little girl if you have one...

 

please be cautious first, so there is no heartbreak later.