VIRGOLDY Posted January 1, 2007 Share Posted January 1, 2007 Is it normal for someone to diasappear or freak out for a few days after showing their feelings for you? Has anyone done this, and how long before you felt ok again? What's the best way to handle someone like this? Just wait for them to come back? Help.Thanks Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
southerngirl Posted January 1, 2007 Share Posted January 1, 2007 Normal is relative. I mean, whats normal for me may be different for someone else. If they are afraid of their feelings, it could make them pull back. I think your best tactic here would be to give them the space they need and wait to see what they do. They may respect your giving them that space and come back even harder. The more you push them for closeness that they are not ready for, the futher you could be pushing them away. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
VIRGOLDY Posted January 1, 2007 Author Share Posted January 1, 2007 Thanks SG. Yeah i was thinking that too. Kind of like the rubber band theory. I'm trying not to chase, or try to find out what happened even though it sucks waiting. Thanks again. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
southerngirl Posted January 1, 2007 Share Posted January 1, 2007 Your welcome. Good Luck with it! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BeStrongBeHappy Posted January 1, 2007 Share Posted January 1, 2007 It depends... that person could now be worried that you don't feel the same way back so is running away in fear. in which case you might want to call them to let them know how you feel too... or if they were drinking or otherwise impaired and said something didn't really mean, then they are worried you will take it seriously and don't want you to... or they said more than they meant to, and are really confused and don't know if telling you was the right thing to do, so are withdrawing while they think about what they want... so depends on the circumstances... but either way i think it would be good for you to establish contact to talk to them to see what is really going on... could also be as simple as the person got really busy or got sick, so the time since you talked really doesn't signify anything... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
VIRGOLDY Posted January 1, 2007 Author Share Posted January 1, 2007 Very very good points. Thank you for your thoughtful input Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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