I'm not sure?!

[Pinkbubbles]

So this guy and I have been doing this back and forth thing for almost a year now and during this time I've developed feelings for him, deep feeling. If I let myself I might fall in love with him. But he's being really stubborn and hard to deal with.

 

Now theres this new guy that met last week. We've only seen each other out twice but tonight he asked for my phone number. I gave it to him. He asked me what I was doing on New Years and I said I wasnt sure so he asked me to a party, I kinda declined cause I felt abligated to the previous guy. Then right as he was leaving her was like ok I'll call you tomorrow!

 

I dont know what to do...should I spend new years wishing the old guy happy new years or should I go out with the new guy and ring the new year in in good fashion?!

[Budman]

You have a choice

 

Continue with the old or try something new?

 

Let's rephrase that

 

Continue with the Non materializing relationship, or try a new materializing relationship.

 

Hmm, decisions decisions...

 

(Hopefully that helps)

[Maverick32x]

couldn't of said it better myself Budman.....

 

 

Its almost always easier to continue doing what you are used to, but it takes a bit of guts to try something diffrent.... I would defintely give the new guy a shot, there is no reason that you need to keep hurting yourself over the old guy!!!

[Siriana]

Take the new guy!