Insecure love, romantic anxiety

[imsoinlovewithher]

I think I have romatic anxiety or insecure love. I don't know if it's even a recognised condition but I looked it up on the internet and I really think I have it. I was just wondering if anyone else experiences/has experienced anything like this?

[Gecko]

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Is that similar to what you're thinking of?

 

If so, I feel your pain.

[imsoinlovewithher]

Thanks for the link, but that's not what I was thinking of. It's like a mixture of being insecure and obsessive and it's related to a relationship. I just wondered if anyone else has had or has anything like this.

 

This is the link I found

 

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[imsoinlovewithher]

Anybody?

[chantal]

Anybody?

Hey , i dont know if this is what you are looking for but i think I know what you mean..

im not comfortable with myself at all and the only way i can have a conversation with a guy is when im stoned or drunk.

any other time i am way to self conscious.

I went out with a guy for three years and just broke up with him not to long ago.. he was everything i didnt want in a man .. but now i feel like i can't get any better then that.

I am aroung guys everyday @ school and @ work and when they try to talk to me i get all nervous and i feel as if im not good enough to be comunicating with them

well im just rambling right now , but i am pretty sure i know what you mean

[imsoinlovewithher]

Hi

 

thanks for your reply, but again that's not really entirely what I mean.

 

It's a complete mixture between being insecure about our relationship. Feeling jealous of people who might be or might become close to her.

Being obssessed with her.

 

It's a mixture and it leads to me overanalysing loads of things and feeling down a lot and hurt a lot.

[imsoinlovewithher]

I'm thinking of telling her about my "problem" whatever it is. I think it might be better to be honest with her, cos she can tell something is going on with me. I don't feel it when I feel close with her, but I felt it today and she could tell and asked me what was wrong. I'm so sick of going around the truth and telling her about some other minor problem in my life.

 

so maybe honesty is the best policy?

[Northalius]

I'm thinking of telling her about my "problem" whatever it is. I think it might be better to be honest with her, cos she can tell something is going on with me. I don't feel it when I feel close with her, but I felt it today and she could tell and asked me what was wrong. I'm so sick of going around the truth and telling her about some other minor problem in my life.

 

so maybe honesty is the best policy?

 

It always is!

 

Tell them exactly how you feel! Always remember, that communication is extremely important in a relationship!