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[quideam]

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[Micksbabyboo]

Age is just a number and happines should come before it if you have feelings for him let him know. A simple thing like a number shouldnt change your desicion about being with some one or not because you guys still have a life time in front of you to make it what you want and be happy with each other..Age wont stop you being happy if you guys are together and besides it adds that bit more knowledge that he is mature and responsable so i say go for the relastionship to progress

[S4il]

Well With this post i would like to ask a Question to Anyone, but it's directed i guess more too women, than Men...

 

Why do Women in general, Seek out older men? and become more attracted to them, rather than a man the same age or younger.

 

i just had a girl tell me she doesn't date younger guys, that being really hard to accept, but now I'm over it, but it did bother me, b/c a lot of people say "age is just a number" "it doesn't matter" Well than why is it so difficult for a Girl (women) to date, or have a Relationship with Someone Younger, Or Even the same age....why does it have to be OLDER>>??? ok I'm not mad here, just frustrated.

 

the age gap i was faced with.

 

the girl was 24, has been married, father is dead. she didn't date younger guys. I'm 22 so i guess that was too young>? maybe so, I just hope it wasn't made to be an excuse.

[Micksbabyboo]

i see what you mean s4il but i personaly dont have a problem with youngermen eithe rbut i did fall in love with som eone older n if he would of been younger i would of accepted him aswell but i can kindsa asnwer your questions women dont like to feel old so once they get with a younger guy that automatically makes them oder then the guy and thats a problem most cant handle

Love,

Dc

[Micksbabyboo]

i see what you mean s4il but i personaly dont have a problem with youngermen eithe rbut i did fall in love with som eone older n if he would of been younger i would of accepted him aswell but i can kindsa asnwer your questions women dont like to feel old so once they get with a younger guy that automatically makes them oder then the guy and thats a problem most cant handle

Love,

Dc

[quideam]

hmm... I see my thread has been hijacked I actually am not normally attracted to much older men (my last boyfriend was 23), it's just this one in particular.

 

What do you guys think I should do? Should I tell him how I feel? I know that realistically, nothing will come of this, but I also feel like I really need to tell him and get my feelings out there or I'm going to go nuts.

 

Please, any advice?