Loulyzer Posted December 24, 2006 Share Posted December 24, 2006 For the first time in my life I fell in love with a man so deeply that my soul finally felt alive. Life was wonderful. But something was killing me inside. I had lied to him over and over about my life before us getting together. He knew I was lying about it and would ask me about it frequently and each time, I lied. I knew that he would leave me if he knew I was lying to him, and come to find out, after I came clean, he left me anyway for lying. I thought that i could keep him as long as I could b/c either way he was going to leave me. Well, everything has all came to a head now, and i'm just waiting for the moment he tells me that he is leaving me for good. I am in love with him and I do not want to give up on our relationship. Any advice? Link to comment
DN Posted December 24, 2006 Share Posted December 24, 2006 Tell hm the truth - i.e. that you lied because you thought you would lose him and that losing him was too hard to think of. Link to comment
renaissancewoman101 Posted December 24, 2006 Share Posted December 24, 2006 What was so bad about your life before him that you had to lie about it? Link to comment
Hope75 Posted December 24, 2006 Share Posted December 24, 2006 What exactly did you lie about? Why did you feel the need to lie to him? Link to comment
Loulyzer Posted December 24, 2006 Author Share Posted December 24, 2006 Tell hm the truth - i.e. that you lied because you thought you would lose him and that losing him was too hard to think of. I have told him the truth. He says that he doesn't know me. That the person he fell in love with he doesn't know anymore. I keep apologizing to him and asking him for forgiveness. I know I have screwed things up and I am definetly paying the price. How can I make things better? Link to comment
DN Posted December 24, 2006 Share Posted December 24, 2006 Don't just ask him for forgiveness but ask him for a chance to prove that you love him and that you will not lie to him again. That is an extremely hard thing to do - but it is worth the effort. Do you mind sharing what it is that you lied about? It may make it easier to help you. Link to comment
Loulyzer Posted December 24, 2006 Author Share Posted December 24, 2006 I lied to him about sleeping with someone Link to comment
DN Posted December 24, 2006 Share Posted December 24, 2006 OK - but that was before you were going out with him right? And thereforeeee that is really your business and your right to keep to yourself. Link to comment
Hope75 Posted December 24, 2006 Share Posted December 24, 2006 I lied to him about sleeping with someone Did he ask you directly about this? DN is right- if that was before you were together, that is your business and has nothing to do with him. Link to comment
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