No contact from her?

[jimpster2005]

Hi,

 

Here's the story:

 

Seeing each other a couple of weeks. We went out one evening (no alcohol) - both had fun, she stayed over - cuddled up, comfortable, slept together (not for the first time). Next morning - barely spoke to me, seemed vacant, we parted awkwardly (mainly because of how she was acting). Messaged her wondering what was wrong later that day - no reply. Next day, messaged her again - light-hearted just to say hi - no reply.

 

What should I do? Do I call her tomorrow and see if she's OK or is this what's called giving me the cold shoulder - should I take the hint?

 

Seems so odd that things can be so different from one day to the next.

[need2bme]

Yep. Same thing happened to me. I got all the LOVE talk though, except she never said the words. If you look up some of my posts about the "fling", you can read up on it.

 

I don't really know what makes someone hot and cold. It sucks. Maybe she is looking for a non-commital relationship. I know that in my case, I will text her (just did so today) and we will have great rapport. Laughing, having a good time and then POOF, she is gone.

 

I don't know why or why I put up with it, but I do. It seems we always want what we don't/can't have.

 

Call her and physically leave a message. Leave it flirty. If she doesn't call you back, then leave it alone...if you can.

[jimpster2005]

Dunno. I might just leave it and see what happens. If she calls then great, but if she doesn't then I'll find someone who's more interested in me without all of this 'up and down' nonsense.

 

Maybe I'll change my mind if she hasn't contacted me by Christmas Day...