should I call her or should I wait for her?

[rodney]

Hi people, I'm new to this sites and I need some advice

 

There is this girl I like (she liked me too) and we used to be ''best friends'' (actually more than friends, something between being together and friends but it never escaladed from there). I never bust a move on her because I was fearing rejection. Slowly we started to talk less to each other but when we talked it was casual. As time went by, for 3 weeks, we stopped talking to each other...

 

But because I liked her too much I had to do something about it, so I got up to her and asked her what's up? She responsed in a good way and after that day we started to talk to each other, casual talk again but this time I didn't see positive signs from her body lang (she never looked in my eyes..that stuff).

 

That was last week - now we are having 3 weeks holiday and I'm wondering if I should call her to keep things flowing or should I wait for her to call me? what is the next step? I don't want to rush things..

[DN]

There is a difference between rushing things and going so slow the other person doesn't even notice you are moving at all. Or worse, thinking you are not interested.

 

Ask her out - you know her well enough by now.

[rodney]

should I wait for her to call or should I call her??

[DN]

You should call her.

[Siriana]

Oh, man. She doesn't have a clue what you want. Should you call her? Yes, ON A DATE. When? ASAP. Why? Beacuse she will consider you as a friend if you don't do something to make obvious you are interested in her.