Thinking of breaking NC?

[dnozzle]

Ponder this first:

 

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[dnozzle]

Good song, but I have really had my fill of the whole "no one's to blame" or "it's no one's fault" stuff. Usually it IS someone's fault, and when we say it isn't, we are just trying to spare them the guilt.

 

I'm done with that in my situation, and it has really helped me a LOT to move on. It WAS her fault. SHE chose this. I fought it like hell and offered every compromise I could think of, but her mind was already made up before she even told me about it.

 

It is her fault.

 

She once told her ex that "some mistakes are permanent" when he tried to get her back. If I ever hear from her again, she will be hearing her own words again....from me.