lets talk about sex baby

[whenamansloveisreal]

many women talk about how hubby has lost his spark with his chubby and so on but how many women will admit to this - when u first start dating, gals dress it up, romp with u at any time any where, make u feel like a god. then when the dating turns into a live-in relationship, and hairy legs and toothpaste spit become involved, sex becomes less and ends up something u do before bed after a long day. now how does that look from a male view point? also, if your male lover puts you first, treats u like an orgasms goddess, how many women do the same? when was the last time you said to hubby, 'just u stay like that - and let me ravage u?' think about that. i was talking with a recently divorced friend about these things and he told me a story of how one night, after he had gone downtown, his wife sighed and whispered 'omg, that was the best oral i have ever had!'. and he said 'too bad i couldn't say the same thing'. so before couples start pointing at porn, or drooping willies, take a look in yer own backyard and see if you've trimmed the lawn recently - wink.

[Day_Walker]

I believe that Chris Rock said it best "you have to recycle the vagina". Although he did not use the word vagina but when sex becomes just something to be done then both parties have to spice it up and bring something new or something that is rarely done.

[BellaDonna]

Hi there. Is this an issue you are currently facing in your relationship?

 

I think the core of this issue has to do with feeling "taken for granted". I think this can easily happen to both partners unless they both take equal responsibility to be sure that they are making their partner feel special and appreciated, both inside the bedroom and out.

 

 

BellaDonna

[scarew]

Hmmmm the guy does the same thing too. So it might be a chicken or egg question. Do women stop shaving their legs every day first, or is it the men who stop showering after work? blaaaaaaaaaach. My husband cannot understand why I don't want to cuddle sometimes but come on, the pregnant nose and no shower? YOU STINK!

[whenamansloveisreal]

it's not an issue i am facing now. i am single. and i didn't mean the post to sound like sex is in anyway the #1 thing. for me, ensure my babe trusts me, lives in a safe and happy and drug free and abuse free home, and never loses herself in the relationship is waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay more important to me.

 

boring eh

[Meow18]

it's not an issue i am facing now. i am single. and i didn't mean the post to sound like sex is in anyway the #1 thing. for me, ensure my babe trusts me, lives in a safe and happy and drug free and abuse free home, and never loses herself in the relationship is waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay more important to me.

 

boring eh

 

I think you will get farther in a relationship with that stuff being the most important things to you.

 

As long as you care about what the other person's wants and needs are, and you really make a point to show your appreciation, I think that it will help avoid some of those issues involving taking the other for granted.

[Baby Carrot]

Moral of the story:

 

Do not turn your lover in to a hubby. Do not turn your love into a contract. DO NOT GET MARRIED.

 

Live together and when the spark is over, go separate ways.

 

Wink.

[Portage]

Moral of the story:

 

Do not turn your lover in to a hubby. Do not turn your love into a contract. DO NOT GET MARRIED.

 

Live together and when the spark is over, go separate ways.

 

Wink.

 

Very well put. This is what i plan on doing in all future relationships. I think when you bring that piece of paper into the relationship the romance can most definitely fizzle. I plan to stay single, why can't you have a long term relationship (down the road for me) under two separate roofs?

 

My version of an ideal relationship that would bloom in such conditions.

[whenamansloveisreal]

that is exactly what my ex proposed a while back but i wanted her all too myself [lol] - then when i realized that was a great way to get back on track i told her YES - LETS DO IT

 

she hung up the phone

 

last i heard from her [lol]

[Meow18]

Very well put. This is what i plan on doing in all future relationships. I think when you bring that piece of paper into the relationship the romance can most definitely fizzle. I plan to stay single, why can't you have a long term relationship (down the road for me) under two separate roofs?

 

My version of an ideal relationship that would bloom in such conditions.

 

That's perfectly fine if that's what you want. Marriage is different to different people. In my opinion, there's nothing wrong with never getting married, and there's nothing wrong with getting married if that's what both want.

 

I know plenty of married couples who have been together for years and years and love each other just the same. I think that there are usually good reasons for why certain marriages don't last.

[whenamansloveisreal]

My Gf And I Have Our Own Homes. We Live Side By Side. We Have A Secret Door And Passage Way The Connects Both Homes. It Works Great!

 

Lol